Marieh Posted April 8, 2006 Report Posted April 8, 2006 We have, and we use it basically everytime we have sex. But, it's not the same, and.. well, it sort of makes me feel even worse; I want to be with him, and I want sex, but I can't get my f***ing body to do as I say. Yeah... We do still have sex, though... Only not as often as we might like. He's not pushing me, and I like to keep some distance. I'm not good with ny sort of intimacy. It's good he's not pushing you, or anything like that He's just the best boyfriend ever. I don't like to think where I might be, or not be, if it hadn't been for him. That's really great... And I have to admit. From the little things I've heard: He sounds like a really, really, really nice boyfriend..
TabbyCool Posted April 8, 2006 Report Posted April 8, 2006 I don't think we're the only ones at all! it's just so extremely frustrating.. I'm 20, and I can't even get wet. Yeah, I'm 23. It's not like we're going through the menopause, I'd expect hormonal problems and stuff then maybe, but not yet!
Emmadolly Posted April 8, 2006 Report Posted April 8, 2006 It sounds like you are putting preasure on your self. There is no need to do this, as our bodies change so often with out consulting us. You seem to be a very sexual woman and you will be back to normal soon. Your partner sounds fab by not pushing you. Can i ask you a question about your periods, as this can be related to your problem. Are they heavy with a lot of cramps, and clots lost during your cycle. Sorry to any fellas reading this.
MarMar Posted April 8, 2006 Report Posted April 8, 2006 I blame it on both the birth control pills and depression. Because of the pill, my periods are very light, and I have no cramps to speak off. But, when I think about it... there are lots of clots...
TabbyCool Posted April 8, 2006 Report Posted April 8, 2006 I try not to put pressure on myself, but when it comes down to it, on the occasions that I do actually feel like having sex, it just doesn't happen. Everything tenses up and then I feel depressed because I feel like a failure. Ian is understanding, but it's hard for him and he gets depressed about it too. My periods are as regular as ever, not much cramps, although I came on this morning and had cramps for the first time in ages. I used to be on the contraceptive pill, I was on one pill from the age of 16, but then I switched to a different one and that's what I blame for this change. Once I realised how bad the problem was I'd been on that new pill for maybe a year. I stopped taking it at the start of last year, but no improvement. I should probably go to the doctors, but I don't really know what to say, it's embarrassing.
Emmadolly Posted April 8, 2006 Report Posted April 8, 2006 I blame it on both the birth control pills and depression. Because of the pill, my periods are very light, and I have no cramps to speak off. But, when I think about it... there are lots of clots... Go and see your GP, as you may be losing the layer of your womb every month. This is a big cause for female dryness. It has nothing to do with depression at all.
TabbyCool Posted April 8, 2006 Report Posted April 8, 2006 I thought you were meant to lose the womb lining during your period? No? Because when you ovulate the womb lining thickens to cushion the egg, but then when it doesn't get fertilised, the womb lining breaks away and leaves your body with the egg. Well, that's what we were taught in biology :-S
Emmadolly Posted April 8, 2006 Report Posted April 8, 2006 It is called Endometriosis, and there are a few symtoms if you have it.
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