Liz Posted April 24, 2006 Report Posted April 24, 2006 Depending on his motives, he might be refering to a very specific part of your body, in which case (unless you're willing to... go there), I'd back away quick-sharpish.
Jess Posted April 24, 2006 Report Posted April 24, 2006 Hey girls, Can I ask your advice please? What would you do if a guy you'd been mates with for ages suddenly told you out of the blue, on the 'phone, that he loved you? I never know whether he's jokng or not, no matter what he says, because sometimes he uses jokeyness to cover seriousness, but, unfortunately for me, I can never tell the difference, so I could really do with some advice. I just thought we were mates, but he has been phoning me regularly for a while now (he lives in London) and chats for hours at a time.... I'm just really confused and don't know what to do now.... I didn't really know what to say to him in response...'cos I like him....but I guess I was just shocked... Sorry for rambling guys! XxX
Gypsy & Will Fan Posted April 24, 2006 Report Posted April 24, 2006 If you really like him then go for it, life is to be lived and you never know what will happen if you don't take the chance. But if you don't like him, break it to him gently and say how much you value his friendship and he means the world to you and things like that. Hope that helps!
Jess Posted April 24, 2006 Report Posted April 24, 2006 Thanks for the advice! I guess it just knocked me for 6....it wasn't really what I had expected him to say LOL. Well, I'm seeing him this weekend, guess I'll have to sort it out then...can't really do much while I'm 150 miles away...OMGosh.....I can tell that this weekend is gonna be SO MUCH fun..... I really like him 'cos he's sweet and cute....but I dunno....I guess I'll just have to see what happens.... XxX
Gypsy & Will Fan Posted April 24, 2006 Report Posted April 24, 2006 Just go with the flow and have lots of fun and see where the mood takes you! Make sure you tell us all about it!
Frankie Posted April 24, 2006 Report Posted April 24, 2006 When best friends fall in love and all that..it can be spectacular.
Jess Posted April 24, 2006 Report Posted April 24, 2006 It can also go spectacularly wrong...and that's what I'm afraid of! But I guess it's kinda outta my control LOL. He is like one of my best mates though and it's kinda scary! XxX
Marieh Posted April 24, 2006 Report Posted April 24, 2006 I was at a point in love with my best mate, it lasted for a while and then it was 'pooooof' gone He knew about it etc.. I thought it was better that I told him then someone else.. xD
Gypsy & Will Fan Posted April 24, 2006 Report Posted April 24, 2006 My ex boyfriend was my best friend we were going out for three years until last week, it was the best three years of my life, I just wished it had lasted longer!
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