Girls Room

[Emmadolly]

I could never swallow. I get nauseous and choke whenever I try to give.

The first time i tried to swollow i choked it back up, disgusting

Emma, how do you pretend to swollow with out him knowing?

When i know he is about to chuck his muck( that is what we call it here), i just place my tongue over my top teeth, he thinks it is still the throat and when it arrives, it is no where near my throat. But i have to admit i love giving oral sex.

[Emmadolly]

I actually have a wee dilemma I could do with some advice on girlies. It's nothing serious, but I found out today my boyfriend doesn't really want kids, and if he had to have them, he'd want to adopt. But I really really want kids of my own some day, and I don't know if this is something I should just forget about or deal with now.

What would you do in my position? (Sorry to detract from the dirty talk)

There is no rush for you to have children at all, i was 30 when i had my first child and 18 months later my second child. If your boyfriend does not want children, and you do want them, you had better have a heart to heart with him. As it is best to sort these things out before they become a problem. What i dont understand is, he would rather adopt over having his own children. It is not like he is going to go through the pain of giving birth.

[buffygirl]

I actually have a wee dilemma I could do with some advice on girlies. It's nothing serious, but I found out today my boyfriend doesn't really want kids, and if he had to have them, he'd want to adopt. But I really really want kids of my own some day, and I don't know if this is something I should just forget about or deal with now.

What would you do in my position? (Sorry to detract from the dirty talk)

Right the first thing is to question why does he not want kids of his own yet willing to adopt?.

Have you being with him for a while.

No if it's that inportant to you don't just forget about it, you both need to be honest and open to your feelings on the subject.

If you delay things sometimes they fesster and end up being bigger than they would have being if you'd talked and being honest in the first place.

BTW I'm not saying its easy.

[katya]

I don't want kids anytime in the next few years, I'm just thinking of the problems this could cause in the future. He says he doesn't want kids because it's selfish when there are so many kids already here in need of parents, and that he has dodgy genes (he has eczema and asthma).

We've been together for almost three years and I always thought he wanted kids as well, and I'm really surprised and shocked that he doesn't. Our relationship is perfect otherwise but, harsh as it may sound, I don't want to spend the next few years with him only to split up when it's time to make these decisions.

Argh.

[buffygirl]

I could never swallow. I get nauseous and choke whenever I try to give.

The first time i tried to swollow i choked it back up, disgusting

Emma, how do you pretend to swollow with out him knowing?

When i know he is about to chuck his muck( that is what we call it here), i just place my tongue over my top teeth, he thinks it is still the throat and when it arrives, it is no where near my throat. But i have to admit i love giving oral sex.

Well i'll have to try that, still can't see how somedon't slip down throat, nbut better over lips

[Penie]

I feel innocent.

[Liz]

I feel innocent.

I'm glad someone does.

Is it because of the spit V swallow confusion?

[buffygirl]

I feel innocent.

Aww bless you, don't be in a rush too loose it

"im not being patronising eiter"

[Mez83]

Oral is gross. I refuse to do it. I don't think it's a good way to get to know each others bodies. I don't find it at all pleasureable. If I wanted a mouth full of meat during sex, I'd cook myself a steak to eat while I had it.

[Penie]

I feel innocent.

I'm glad someone does.

Is it because of the spit V swallow confusion?

Yes kinda