~Lynd~ Posted July 5, 2006 Report Posted July 5, 2006 Girls, a quick (somewhat personal) question: Spit or swallow? I've only done it once and swallowed.Not really a pleasant experience,i'd only do it again with someone i really loved. I actually have a wee dilemma I could do with some advice on girlies. It's nothing serious, but I found out today my boyfriend doesn't really want kids, and if he had to have them, he'd want to adopt. But I really really want kids of my own some day, and I don't know if this is something I should just forget about or deal with now. What would you do in my position? (Sorry to detract from the dirty talk) I guess it depends on how much you want kids and how much he dosn't.Maybe you could adopt one and have one of your own?a bit of a compromise. You should really talk,as you say you don't want to spend years with someone if you really want kids to find when the time comes that he really don't.Would either of you change your mind for the other?
Elise Posted July 5, 2006 Report Posted July 5, 2006 Ok, lets just go back to the oral sex thing..... I, like Mez, don't like it, however, I will do it as long as he doesn't come in my mouth or anywhere near it as it would make me physically ill. My ex used to tell me just before he was about to come, and i'd give him a hand until he did. I trusted him to tell me and he never betrayed me that way (he did betray me though, but that's a different subject). Most guys do respect your decision in the fact that oral is gross, and they accomodate that. My ex did, and he knew that if he did come in or anywhere near my mouth, that would be the end of it. He knew my limits, and he respected that. If he doesn't, he is not worthy of you. There are plenty of other ways to explore each other, and oral is not for everyone, not me anyway. It all comes down to respect, but if you don't like it, all you need to do is to tell your partner, and again, if he doesn't respect that, then he can hit the road! It comes down to communication, and that everyone is different, like I don't know how anyone can let someone else come in their mouth, but on the other side of the scale they probably could not understand why some people think it is gross! Just my take on things, take it as you wish.
MarMar Posted July 5, 2006 Report Posted July 5, 2006 Where have you all gone to.? Away from here obviously. I wonder why.
-Emily- Posted July 5, 2006 Report Posted July 5, 2006 Ok...this is gonna sound bad lol, but I made this thread so we could talk about boys etc etc, not sex, etc. That sounded rude didn't it? Its not that I don't wanna talk about this sorta stuff...its just not really what this thread was made for.
Tamxxx Posted July 5, 2006 Report Posted July 5, 2006 Ok...this is gonna sound bad lol, but I made this thread so we could talk about boys etc etc, not sex, etc. That sounded rude didn't it? Its not that I don't wanna talk about this sorta stuff...its just not really what this thread was made for. Aww, emily, your so sweet,I get what you mean, maybe some of the topics are too explict for younger members
Tamxxx Posted July 5, 2006 Report Posted July 5, 2006 Relating to the topic about swallowing and spit, I dont know how I could eat someones cum, I find it personally gross, I mean isnt it supposed to taste bitter, it would practically release all the contents of my stomach if i did it, I dont want to offend anyone, its just my personal opinion, but to me it puts me of its like swallowing a load of mucus.
Pierced Musie Posted July 5, 2006 Report Posted July 5, 2006 I wouldn't know. I have never been in the position before.
Tamxxx Posted July 5, 2006 Report Posted July 5, 2006 isnt swallowing cum, can make you pregnant as well?
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