Jess Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 I know, it really does! And my sister is blonde, and even though her hairs are hard to see anyway, she's one of the least hairy people I've seen! It's s*d's law!
Elise Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 Don't worry, I'm much like you Jeh-Jeh! But I'm real skinny, so you actually grow hair to keep you warm believe it or not! Thus why I get my belly, lower back and legs waxed!
MarMar Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 I'm blonde, but my.. hairs are really dark, black actually.
Megina Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 I see by your profile your 16; I am not by any means belittling your emotion at all. I am so going to get shouted at by the men on this board. Men behave this way sometimes and i would give a £1 to every male if they explained this and why they do it to us girls. When i was your age i felt the same way about my boyfriend. And only this week i had to remind my hubby of 11 years, that we did not get together for the kids, as they came 6 years later. As i felt my role was in the kitchen, the garden the mum, the nurse, the cook the cleaner. I made sure i put my point across about how i felt, and guess what? He had no idea i had been feeling this way, so have a chat with him on your own, i m sure you can resolve it, or decide what you want to do about it. I guess the thing is that he has changed so much lately you know... He was the one who wanted to get together with me and so he was very attentive (?), sent sms's all the time and stuff like that.. Now I have to be the one who calls, says hi on msn, sends messages (he doesn't respond all the time either) and I guess I'm just fed up with feeling like I am the only one of us who cares if we're together or not.. Also it's been ages since he took the initiative (?) for us to do something together, it's pretty much always been me lately..
Elise Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 If I have learned ANYTHING from my previous 4 year relationship....I'd flick him if he treated me this way! My ex was doing the same thing, turned out he was cheating on me. Now I'm not saying he is, but if I were you, I'd save the whole lot of hurt later and end it now. Just my opinion, take it as you want.
Megina Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 Believe me I have thought about it! It's just a whole mess of stuff that makes me hessitate (?).. Like the fact that I'm afraid of ruining what we had before we got together.. Also I won't be able to cut him out of my life either, as our mums are best friends... It's a whole lot of other things too but it would take forever to list them all...
Elise Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 Yes, but if it gets worse, and time goes by, it will get a lot worse. Trust me, I went through it! I was gonna break up with him in the first 6 weeks, and if there is one thing I regret, it is that I didn't do it sooner. He ended up cheating on me and kicking me out of his house. I never want to see him again. I would talk to him, break ups are never easy. And sometimes ppl remain friends, some do not. But it all boils down to how you deal with it.
Megina Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 I am going to talk to him (I just hate this kind of thing) but I just need to find the right time (and get him alone). I am going to ask him what's going on and what's changed and if the problem is that he doesn't want to be with me anymore than we'll call it quits and that's that.. I guess I'm just hoping for a turn-around without having to ask for one, even though I know that's not going to happen.. Thanks so much for the advice by the way
Elise Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 No problems. But your right in saying it won't change by itself. You need to nip it in the bud before it gets worse! And if he doesn't improve....ditch him!
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