Girls Room

[Eli]

I'll pass it on to her. Or I would pass it on to her, but she doesn't exist, remember? Thanks for discussing this hypothetical scenario with me

[~Lynd~]

Do any ladies here have any idea how to get over someone who clearly doesn't give a damn?Me,crazy?Yes and it's driving me even crazier.

[Dotti]

You mean like getting over a guy? Breaking up is tough.

[Eli]

My best advice is physical distance. I know it sounds lame and stupid, but space is seriously underrated, and you'll get over him ten times faster if you don't talk to him or see him every day for a while.

[Georgia]

Ok, now this may sound stupid, but I would like to hear what you guys think.

I used to go out with this guy, and when we went out, he spent the whole time on his phone with his mates. We broke up, but right before I went on holiday, we decided to go out again. However, when I was away, although he texted me, one of my other guy friends was telling me that he was holding other girls hands and flirting all the time. Needless to say, we broke up again, and still hung out as friends, but it got awkward. Now, right before he went on holiday to America, we decided that we'd give it another shot when he came back from holiday. Now he's gone, and I don't know if I want to give it another shot anymore. We are still in high school, so it's obvious it's not going to last, but he keeps talking what kind of stuff I want to do, even though I've told him I don't want to talk about it. So, now I'm confused. I thought I liked him, but now that I think about it, I don't know how I feel any more. Should I just tell him to forget about it ?

[Dotti]

I think if a guy cheats once, he'll cheat again! You sound like a good person you don't deserve a guy who's going to treat you like dirt! I'd find someone else, you don't need a man to boost your self-confidence or to make yourself happy. You're quite capable of doing that without a man.

[~Lynd~]

You mean like getting over a guy? Breaking up is tough.

Yes getting over a guy,but not a break up,we were never together.I like him and thought we were at least friends but apparently not.

My best advice is physical distance. I know it sounds lame and stupid, but space is seriously underrated, and you'll get over him ten times faster if you don't talk to him or see him every day for a while.

It doesn't sound lame,it makes perfect sence.It's not working though,we've barely seen each other these last few months.I guess i'll just have to keep doing what i'm doing and hope my thick head eventually gets the message.

[Barbara]

I heard the weirdest thing last night.

Some friends of my cousin's boyfriend found out the girl was 8 months pregnant on Tuesday and she went into labour on Friday!

The girl didn't know she was pregnant. She wasn't feeling well on Tuesday so she went to the doctor who told her she was 8 months pregnant. A few days later, she gave birth to a baby girl. People saw the mother in a bathing suit just a month or two ago and she didn't look pregnant at all even though she was already 6/7 months pregnant.

The parents aren't even living together yet, they're both still at uni. It came as a shock as you can imagine!

And no, I'm not joking. My cousin showed me some pictures of the newborn and she is a healthy and normal size baby.

I had already heard about women not knowing they were pregnant until the last moment but it's really different when it happens closer to you. I still can't believe it. My cousin who found out a few days ago still can't believe it. Imagine how you would feel if your life changed like that in the space of a couple of days.

[adellejefferiesxox]

^ That happened in one of my fics I believe it could happen.

[Lise]

That happened with one the children we used to look after at my work. His mother didn't know she was pregnant with him until she was in labour with him and they were on holiday, too.

It would be a huge shock but babies need so many things like cots, clothes etc that buying all of that stuff all at once would cost a lot on top of having a child to look after.