HighwayUnicorn Posted September 2, 2011 Report Posted September 2, 2011 My friend and I asked the boys we like via facebook messages if they would like to go bowling with us one time but neither have replied back makes me think their not interested Then it's their loss to be honest ... well done to you and your friend though ... I wouldn't have the guts to ask a guy out. I can't even form a word, let alone a sentence around guys I like. The last guy I liked was when I had a university interview and he was so lovely, so sweet and acted like such a gentleman ... seriously, he was perfect in every way and he came up and spoke to me and asked me what my name was. I was sitting there like; what's my name? So embarrassing.
LauraPhilly!! Posted October 31, 2011 Report Posted October 31, 2011 Girls...I have another question to ask you all. The other night, right, in this club, I was meeting this guy for like over two hours. It was pretty intense imo and I thought he seemed really nice because he wasn't that pushy or anything. He kinda implied that he wanted to have sex with me but I was just like no to that. So that was last Thursday night...and I was pretty happy because he asked for my number, but he didn't text me for ages, so yesterday, Sunday, after encouragement from my cousin, I texted him and we were talking for ages. We kinda talked about that night in the club and I said how he should go out again soon and he was just like 'yeah, if I can afford it' I was feeling really elated about the whole thing...we had a great night on Thursday and he seems really nice in his texts. I was like is he a potential boyfriend. And then today, after speaking to one of my friends, I was just like...omg am I coming across too eager? She then said that I'm in kinda a bad position seeing as I texted him first, he knows I'm interested and that he could play hard to get. I already quite like him despite hardly knowing him and I'd hate to think that that would happen... And then like he hasn't texted me at all today which is hardly a good thing.... Girls, what do you think I should do?! I'm slightly frustrated...maybe he's just being your typically guy...?!
Zetti Posted October 31, 2011 Report Posted October 31, 2011 Ah boy drama..I remember that.. the fact that you text him first can mean you come across as a bit too eager but if he texted you back then he has to like you somehow..and the fact that he hasnt text you much today isnt necessarily a bad thing..he is probably being a guy and backing off a bit. If you really like him, leave it a few days and then text him, simple message to say hi or something. If its meant to be, it will work.
Lucii Posted October 31, 2011 Report Posted October 31, 2011 Maybe he was just having a busy day? Leave it until tomorrow night before texting him again I'm sure it'll all work out I always come across really eager I always text guys first but now they've gotten into the habit of texting me first before I go all crazy stalker
~Zoe~ Posted January 14, 2012 Report Posted January 14, 2012 I've got to go the doctors on the 24, not this week coming (the week after) as I get my period pains can get quite bad. Some months they are okay but some months, I feel really sick with it & feel light headed & faint etc. So I lie down with a hot water bottle & painkillers till it eases off. But my aunt & my mum both suggested going on the pill to help with it, & thats what I've booked my appointment for in two weeks time. It's a male doctor who I'm seeing, but I feel comfortable talking to him about as I've built up a trust with him as he's helped with other things through the years with mental health. Do you think its a good idea to go on them?
Zetti Posted January 15, 2012 Report Posted January 15, 2012 My cousin who is now 17 is on the pill for period pains, she says it does help so I am sure it will do, but if you are concerned about it, then just talk to the doctor and see what you can do X
Lucii Posted January 15, 2012 Report Posted January 15, 2012 I went to the doctors with really bad period pain but I didn't want to go on the pill so he prescribed me with mefenamic acid tablets which really helped so much so that the pain completely disappears I was on various pain killers and hot water bottles beforehand but nothing ever seemed to work out but these do and there always there as an option if you don't want to go on the pill because some can have side effects.
suzannelgnz Posted January 15, 2012 Report Posted January 15, 2012 To be honest, I'm pretty much going to say what everyone else is saying. The pill can work, but it doesn't for everyone. I have been on and off it since I was 16, and I was on about 4 different ones (2 of which have now been discontinued). Some of the stuff that may be said can seem alarming e.g. gen 3 pills have an increased risk of dvt for the first 12 months. It may also be worth asking for a referral to a gynaecologist as your problems may be caused by other things. btw, I was taking marvelon but now have a Mirena iucd. If you have any other questions, ask away
~Zoe~ Posted January 16, 2012 Report Posted January 16, 2012 ^ Thanks for all the advice, helped to read it all. It's my time of the month, started last night. This morning, I was planning to go to do my voluntary work at home comforts in cannock and I got ready, started walking down to where I get the bus & felt really unwell, with period pain. So I went to my mums which was just around the corner, & when I got there I had to lie down on her sofa, & I felt sick, dizzy, went really hot etc! It did ease off a few hours after, as I fell asleep with a hotwater bottle & painkillers. It stopped me from doing my voluntary work though, which only started last Monday, was my second week this week. (As I'm doing one day a week for now) & i was looking forward to it aswell! Then once it eased off I was able to go to cannock in the afternoon for my guitar lesson. So I will talk to my doctor about it next week, and see what he suggest if he puts me on the pill, or whether there is anything else which can help.
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