~Zoe~ Posted February 24, 2012 Report Posted February 24, 2012 ^ Thanks everyone, I will do today before the band do their band practice this afternoon
Lucii Posted June 18, 2012 Report Posted June 18, 2012 Hey guys just wondering if anyone would be able to give me some advice? It would be very much appreciated. Basically since college I've met a load of new people and one friend in particular I've become really close to until about April when I realised we became close because I was starting to like him. Ever since then I've wanted to talk to him but I just can't - it's like somethings blocking me from telling him. But today he told me that he's quitting college and I just don't want to tell him that I like him before it's too late. I'm just not sure how to tell him how I feel?
soph1303 Posted June 20, 2012 Report Posted June 20, 2012 Lucii - not actually sure if you should listen to my advice or not - but here's my two cents worth: I think You should explain it to him along the lines of how you explained it to us, as this is obviously an accurate description of how you're feeling. Explain to him that you really value the friendship you both share, but that you value it even more because you have realized you like him as something more. Tell him that you don't want to make things awkward between you two if he doesn't feel the same way, but that him leaving made you realize that you didn't want to wait until it was too late to tell him. Best case scenario - he likes you too . Worst Case scenario: he doesn't - but as he is dropping out soon anyway, you won't have to endure the awkwardness for too much longer. Anyway, like I said - please feel free to ignore my advice if you disagree
Lucii Posted June 20, 2012 Report Posted June 20, 2012 Lucii - not actually sure if you should listen to my advice or not - but here's my two cents worth: I think You should explain it to him along the lines of how you explained it to us, as this is obviously an accurate description of how you're feeling. Explain to him that you really value the friendship you both share, but that you value it even more because you have realized you like him as something more. Tell him that you don't want to make things awkward between you two if he doesn't feel the same way, but that him leaving made you realize that you didn't want to wait until it was too late to tell him. Best case scenario - he likes you too . Worst Case scenario: he doesn't - but as he is dropping out soon anyway, you won't have to endure the awkwardness for too much longer. Anyway, like I said - please feel free to ignore my advice if you disagree Thanks for your advice soph1303 Really appreciate it! I'm going to follow your advice and explain to him then hope for the best!
soph1303 Posted June 20, 2012 Report Posted June 20, 2012 Lucii - no worries !!! Let us know how everything goes - good luck !!
Lucii Posted June 21, 2012 Report Posted June 21, 2012 Hey guys just wondering if anyone would be able to give me some advice? It would be very much appreciated. Basically since college I've met a load of new people and one friend in particular I've become really close to until about April when I realised we became close because I was starting to like him. Ever since then I've wanted to talk to him but I just can't - it's like somethings blocking me from telling him. But today he told me that he's quitting college and I just don't want to tell him that I like him before it's too late. I'm just not sure how to tell him how I feel? Tell him the truth, lovely. Talk to him and tell him that he is a very special friend to you. You won't know until you try, eh? You have everything to gain, and nothing to lose. Trust me. Guys like it when girls can just declare the truth, because more often than not, the guy actually likes you back! Good luck! Thank you! I'm going to tell him soon but I feel alot more confident now others are telling me that I should go for it Lucii - no worries !!! Let us know how everything goes - good luck !! Will do! Thankyou!
soph1303 Posted June 22, 2012 Report Posted June 22, 2012 Wondering if it's not too much trouble to ask for some advice of my own?? I have a doctors appointment in about a week to discuss the possibility of putting me on the pill. I have had my period for about 2 1/2 years now, and it still hasn't regulated so my mum thinks I should go on the pill for it as I also get really bad symptoms as well. However I had a look on the Internet and alot of them appear to be symptoms you can get if you have endometriosis. I know it's really rare to have endometriosis at my age, but I was wondering if I should mention it at the appointment, or if it's probably coincidental and I should stop worrying about it?? Any advice is appreciated
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