LauraPhilly!! Posted July 7, 2012 Report Posted July 7, 2012 Hey girls, need some boy advice... Went clubbing on Tuesday night with my friends and I hooked up with this guy. He bought me a drink, we exchanged numbers, he said he'd text me tomorrow. Then, literally the minute I left the club, he started texting me and I was getting this really keen vibe off him so I just decided to play it cool at the moment. We met up that next evening, Wednesday night, in town, walked around and chatted for awhile before he offered to bring me home. I'm not very used to dating and was not sure of what to do exactly when the guy pulled up beside my house. Obviously I thanked him for bringing me home but nothing apart from that happened, we didn't hug, nothing... but he sort of implied to me that we might meet up again sometime. However, it is now Saturday evening and we haven't spoken since that Wednesday night. Despite me texting to say thank you for the lift home and then hey the next day, he hasn't texted back at all and so I've now come to realise that he isn't going to at all and that he obviously isn't interested in me. I'm wondering whether it was because of me that he hasn't texted back - did he get a 'not-interested-in-a-relationship' vibe off me, or did he just not like me? But still, that doesn't excuse him from not texting me back at least. Would really appreciate some advice girls... this is really frustrating for me.
~Lynd~ Posted July 8, 2012 Report Posted July 8, 2012 He sounds like a douche.I've had a similar experience and at the end of the day you just have to accept that some guys lack the common decency to even send a text message. I don't think it was you.It sounds like he just needs to man up and get some manners.Some guys think their sh!t don't stink. Sorry if i'm to blunt but men like that annoy me.
LauraPhilly!! Posted July 8, 2012 Report Posted July 8, 2012 Thanks for the advice, Lynd! I'm just quite frustrated, upset even, because he seemed really nice and I really thought that it was the beginning of something!
soph1303 Posted July 12, 2012 Report Posted July 12, 2012 Ok so I have a boy problem. There's this guy that its in the same acting group that I go to every Saturday that I REALLY like. We really good mates and have been for over a year now, and I've probably liked him for half of that time. The problem is though that we only see each other through this class; we don't go to school together and we live in completely different parts of Adelaide. To add to other complications he likes this girl from his school and has done for about 3 years. It's a bit hard to compete with something like that. Because, apart from this other girl, I am pretty much his only friend who's a girl, he keeps asking me for advice as to how he should proceed with this girl. One option is to help him ask out this other girl, and I'm unhappy. Or the other option is to not, and then he's unhappy which I don't want! I really like this guy, but I also really like our friendship and I don't want to ruin that either!! Any advice would be much appreciated!! P.S. In other news all my blood tests came back clear
LauraPhilly!! Posted July 12, 2012 Report Posted July 12, 2012 Hey soph... Good to hear about your blood tests coming back clear. On the boy note, I personally think that you should just be honest with this because otherwise you're just going to end up miserable. It mustn't be nice for you when the guy you like looks to you for advice about another girl, so at least if he knew that you liked him, he would probably stop coming to you for advice which might make things a small bit better...? You really have to be true to yourself in this situation. If he really is your friend then it shouldn't jeopardise your friendship. He should in fact be grateful that you were honest with him. And if something were to happen between the two of you, I wouldn't worry how far away you live from him. I have two friends who are in a relationship and they too lived complete polar opposites to eachother but they made it work and are still going strong 1.5years later!
Zetti Posted July 12, 2012 Report Posted July 12, 2012 It sounds to me like you're stuck in the middle between opening up to him about your feelings and getting hurt but at the same time you dont want to see him unhappy, the best thing to do is be honest, if you dont then if he finds out in the future, it may affect things and I am sure that you dont want that. So be honest and make it clear that you want him to be happy whether or not that means he's with you or not. I wouldnt worry about the distance, I am sort of seeing someone and he lives nearly 1 hour away from me and its working so far. Just take it as it comes and I am here if you need any further advice. Good to know your results were clear
watchtowersing Posted July 16, 2012 Report Posted July 16, 2012 Soph - The other girls are right, as hard as it can be, being honest is the best option. Telling him how you feel and being flat out honest you don't want to lose the friendship but you can't help him ask another girl out when you have feelings for him is the best option for you . I've been there, it sucks. I was lucky, by being honest this guy and I are still really good friends, and that was probably 3/4 years ago! Honesty is best!
soph1303 Posted October 19, 2012 Report Posted October 19, 2012 Don't use this site anymore, but I just wanted to come back on one last time and thank everyone who gave me advice on this thread. That guy I liked? We are now dating Just thought I'd let you guys know, thanks for your help guys xxx
ScreamingQueen2006 Posted October 19, 2012 Report Posted October 19, 2012 Don't use this site anymore, but I just wanted to come back on one last time and thank everyone who gave me advice on this thread. That guy I liked? We are now dating Just thought I'd let you guys know, thanks for your help guys xxx Hey Soph. That's awesome. Congrats.
~Zoe~ Posted January 31, 2013 Report Posted January 31, 2013 I'm 28 next month. and i've never had a smear test. :/ does it hurt when you have it done?
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