Advice on boys

[~Angel~]

Oh... and I forgot to say that any girl having boy trouble canuse this thread for her own boy troubles, it's not just for me

[summer_bay_rules]

Ok so I have a sort of problem. Last April this boy who I am friends with told me on MSN that he fancied me and I also fancied him. We went to Pizza Hut once but said that we shouldn't tell our other friends. This is because one of our other friends had started saying that we had got off at a party even though she knew we hadn't as I spent the whole time with her. My other friends thought the idea of us together was rediculous. He then never mentioned going out again which I was sort of pleased about because when we did go out it was awkward and I didn't know what to say. Now he wants to go to town and I don't know what to do because what if it's awkward again.

[*belle*]

You should go out with him and then talk about it with him. Chances are if you find it awkward then he will to and you'll both be glad to get it out in the open. It'll be a big relief to get it out of the way and then you can focus on having a good time. I hope it all goes well for you

[summer_bay_rules]

I've arraged to go to town with him not this weekend coming but the next one so I will have to wait and see what happens then. It's awkward at school because the only time I see him is when we are surrounded by our other friends.

[*belle*]

Once you've been out with him a few times it'll break the ice and things will get easier at school. When you go out with him just try and be yourself, chat about things you like and things you know he likes, just try and get a conversation going. Coz once you've had one, the rest will just come on by themselves.

[summer_bay_rules]

Yeah I think it's just awkward because it's a new situation. I've never had a boyfriend before so I get quite nervous. Hopefully this time will be better.

[*belle*]

Yeah the first times always hard, it feels a bit strange at first, but you soon get into it. I hope it all goes well though, keep us updated eh?

[summer_bay_rules]

Sure I'll keep you posted. We're not going out for nearly another 2 weeks so I have lots of time to think of how to be less nervous. lol

[*belle*]

lol, that's something I've never been good at. Controlling nerves. They always seem to get the better of me and it's horrible, until I finally relax that is. Just try and make conversation as quickly as possible and you'll relax soon enough, that's the best way to keep your nerves under control. Hope I'm helping here BTW

[summer_bay_rules]

Thanks. Yeah you're helping. It's good to be able to talk it through with someone as none of our friends know so I can't talk to them about it.