Di Posted February 12, 2008 Report Posted February 12, 2008 Still thinking of you, Di . Awe bless you thanks, so much hun..
flyingwithoutwings Posted February 13, 2008 Report Posted February 13, 2008 ^ Oh my gosh Di, Im so sorry! Thinking of you! I know EXACTLY how you feel, one of my cats passed away in September, 2 weeks before my Great Grandma died, so that was extra hard. I'm still not over it [i know, I'm strange], but I know how much it hurts! Especially in two big hits at the same time! xo
Mez83 Posted February 13, 2008 Report Posted February 13, 2008 ^ I'm still not over my dog dying in August. I still have blubbering moments when I think about her.
Di Posted February 22, 2008 Report Posted February 22, 2008 Tom had some tests re done on Tuesday, to see if the one off health issue he was having scans for end of last yr. Was indeed a one off thing, but to a surprise to everyone in the room. It does not look like a one off health issue We will know in four months if the new routine he's doing, has worked. If it has not worked, Tom and me will have to face upto and learn some new medical erm technques. To make things worse if they are not allready, Tom's got very, very low self esteam atm. Cuase of his DMD getting worse his DMD specailest was taken back how worse he's got, as I was chatting to him abt the new health issues Tom has. He has even said he will see Tom early than his June appointment he has. As he's so surprised abt how much Toms gotten worse. But I really don't think Tom can cope with n=more bad new atm... Its really hitting home to him. I'm trying my very best to cheer him up. But its hard, esp as I'm struggling to come to terms with Tom getting worse myself, and knwoing he's not going to be around forever. Even thou I have had abt 14 yrs to come to terms with it. It's still very upsetting for me. So god, know what's going off in Toms mind.
claire_louise Posted February 22, 2008 Report Posted February 22, 2008 Thinking of you Di. Tom is lucky to have such a great mum and I'm sure he's well aware of that. I really hope things start to look up soon - maybe a treat for you both is in store?
girl_from_uk Posted February 25, 2008 Report Posted February 25, 2008 Right im just curious about peoples opinion on this but Ive abit of a story to tell you. When I was younger I was put inot care and adopted because my mam and dad werent looking after me properly and put me through alot of bad things (to put it nicely). Its coming up to being 2 years since my real mam died and although I never got to meet her as I last seen her when I was 2 year old, im dreading the annivcersary coming up and ive been missing her loads lately. Am I right in feeling this or would most people be not bothered about it? Just curious so write back if you like.xx
Kateritchiefan Posted February 25, 2008 Report Posted February 25, 2008 Im sorry to hear about that i know what it feels like You are right to feel like it it is ok
girl_from_uk Posted February 25, 2008 Report Posted February 25, 2008 how is it you know what it feels like? were u adopted like me then? Mod-edit: Merged with Support thread
claire_louise Posted February 25, 2008 Report Posted February 25, 2008 Of course it's normal to feel that way, there's nothing to worry about. You'll always have a bond with the woman who gave birth to you, even if you didn't have a relationship after you were born. Maybe you could do something to mark the anniversary, like visit her grave (if she has one) or go to church, or a place that meant something to both of you?
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