TachelHolden Posted September 29, 2009 Report Posted September 29, 2009 Zoe just watch out , He sounds like a bit of a perv!! Best thing to do is try and keep put of his way.
-Kevin- Posted September 30, 2009 Report Posted September 30, 2009 Zoe just watch out , He sounds like a bit of a perv!! Best thing to do is try and keep put of his way. He doesn't sound like a perv at all but he does sound nasty. I wonder why hes so moody , and anyway he has got no right to shout a you. I know I can get moody sometimes and shout at people but that just because hes had a bad day doesn't mean he can have a go at you and take his anger out on you. Does he get moody and shout at your auntie Zoe ? Yoiu're in a difficult situation because you haven't really got somewhere else to go and can't move out on your own because of your epilepsy either. As hard as it is living with someone like that I think you're just going to have to see if things get any better. I hope he becomes a bit more civil towards you , and don't let him get you down because hes just a bully. I know if someone spoke to me like that I would ask them what their problem is and tell them I won't be spoke t like that. I wouldn't be happy , I would give as good as I get.
~Zoe~ Posted September 30, 2009 Report Posted September 30, 2009 Zoe just watch out , He sounds like a bit of a perv!! Best thing to do is try and keep put of his way. He doesn't sound like a perv at all but he does sound nasty. I wonder why hes so moody , and anyway he has got no right to shout a you. I know I can get moody sometimes and shout at people but that just because hes had a bad day doesn't mean he can have a go at you and take his anger out on you. Does he get moody and shout at your auntie Zoe ? Yoiu're in a difficult situation because you haven't really got somewhere else to go and can't move out on your own because of your epilepsy either. As hard as it is living with someone like that I think you're just going to have to see if things get any better. I hope he becomes a bit more civil towards you , and don't let him get you down because hes just a bully. I know if someone spoke to me like that I would ask them what their problem is and tell them I won't be spoke t like that. I wouldn't be happy , I would give as good as I get. Thanks Charlene & Kevin Nah, he is'nt like that with my aunty, he's been with her for 6 years now so they obviously love each other, but even she said that he can get moody sometimes, I'll just try and keep out of his way, & just speak to another family member about it.
adellejefferiesxox Posted October 1, 2009 Report Posted October 1, 2009 What would you define alcoholic as....
Laura Posted October 1, 2009 Report Posted October 1, 2009 Im so upset right now. Its my mum , she said something really nasty to me and it really hurt. It all started when I went to cook something for my dinner when she came down shouting at me for no reason , and it frightened me because it came out of nowhere. I asked her what was up and she just started saying stuff like why cant I be like my other older sister. Its not my fault that I cant be like my older sister , were different people. I just dont understand where its come from. Then I couldnt believe it when she told me to drop dead and she couldn't care less if I dropped dead or not. Nobody says that to their children , well not a normal mother anyway. Im just so upset and angry at her right now and dont know what to do
sharksarecute Posted October 2, 2009 Report Posted October 2, 2009 Im so upset right now. Its my mum , she said something really nasty to me and it really hurt. It all started when I went to cook something for my dinner when she came down shouting at me for no reason , and it frightened me because it came out of nowhere. I asked her what was up and she just started saying stuff like why cant I be like my other older sister. Its not my fault that I cant be like my older sister , were different people. I just dont understand where its come from. Then I couldnt believe it when she told me to drop dead and she couldn't care less if I dropped dead or not. Nobody says that to their children , well not a normal mother anyway. Im just so upset and angry at her right now and dont know what to do Oh Laura... how terrible . Your mother's anger has come from some where and you need to find out why she was so angry with you. I dont know your mum, you or your situation, but possibly your mother said those things out of anger and did not mean them. Ive said hurtful things to people our of spite and instantly regretted them because I did not mean it. Hurtful words can be difficult to take back. Perhaps your mum is feeling bad right now, and while that in no way condones what she said, she too is human and capable of mistakes. Give her some time to calm down and think rationally about what happened, and approach her calmly and tell her how her words hurt you and took you by complete surprise. xxx
~Lynd~ Posted October 2, 2009 Report Posted October 2, 2009 What would you define alcoholic as.... Someone who can't go a day without having a drink.
flyingwithoutwings Posted October 2, 2009 Report Posted October 2, 2009 ^ & who ruins people's lives in the process. -___- Can't stand them, honestly. Personal experiences with them, and the effects they have on people. They make me really angry. Laura, I'm so sorry about that. It must have shocked you, because of how it came out of no where. Nothing excuses what she said, whether she was angry or not. She never should've said it. Hopefully she's remorseful and knows that it hurt you. As Sharks said, nothing condones what she said. I hope you're okay.
Lise Posted October 2, 2009 Report Posted October 2, 2009 Basically, Lynd summed it up - an alcoholic can't go one day without drinking. It ends up taking over their lives e.g. it's all they do with their spare time. It took my Dad half of his life to admit he had a problem and even then, he needed the biggest scare you'll ever get for him to do it.
Dotti Posted October 2, 2009 Report Posted October 2, 2009 I think it's possible to be an alcoholic and still be able to give up it say once a week. But then go straight back to drinking for the rest of the week.
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