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[~Lynd~]

Well, I did what I said I didn't want to do and I spoke to him about it. I rang him last night and he insisted he wasn't and then decided he was going to come over to mine cause he didnt to see and speak to me ( this was half 1 in the morning and he was drunk and decided to drive. Clever idea! ) and then he got here and kept saying how he wasn't and doesn't get why I think it and he loves me and then started crying. Lol. I think that might have been the alcohol though.

Srange as it sounds,if he was drunk i'd tend to believe him.People tend to be more honest when they've had a few and if he was cheating he probably would have told you at that point.

[Laura]

Well, I did what I said I didn't want to do and I spoke to him about it. I rang him last night and he insisted he wasn't and then decided he was going to come over to mine cause he didnt to see and speak to me ( this was half 1 in the morning and he was drunk and decided to drive. Clever idea! ) and then he got here and kept saying how he wasn't and doesn't get why I think it and he loves me and then started crying. Lol. I think that might have been the alcohol though.

Srange as it sounds,if he was drunk i'd tend to believe him.People tend to be more honest when they've had a few and if he was cheating he probably would have told you at that point.

Yeah, I do believe him that he isn't cheating and I did think about the alcohol is meant to make people honest but still doesn't change the fact I don't trust him.. Oh well, I'll live

[DinerLandlord]

I texted Mr Loverboy from last week and asked him to go for a drink. He said he "wouldn't mind meeting up, BUT...blah, blah,blah, some excuse...". Ugh, self-esteem crashing to the ground. He even said he'd let me know if he changes his mind. I wish he had just said "NO F*** OFF!!!", at least that would have let me know for sure he isn't interested.

[TelephotoMarigold]

I texted Mr Loverboy from last week and asked him to go for a drink. He said he "wouldn't mind meeting up, BUT...blah, blah,blah, some excuse...". Ugh, self-esteem crashing to the ground. He even said he'd let me know if he changes his mind. I wish he had just said "NO F*** OFF!!!", at least that would have let me know for sure he isn't interested.

You need to remember that you are a stong independant person that doesn't need a man to be happy. And well it's his loss for missiong out isn't it... There are a lot of fish out there.... sometimes you find a keeper and other times it is way better to throw them back inot the ocean!

[-Kevin-]

I texted Mr Loverboy from last week and asked him to go for a drink. He said he "wouldn't mind meeting up, BUT...blah, blah,blah, some excuse...". Ugh, self-esteem crashing to the ground. He even said he'd let me know if he changes his mind. I wish he had just said "NO F*** OFF!!!", at least that would have let me know for sure he isn't interested.

Oh well isn't that nice of him!!!

I agree it would be much better if he either said get lost or a definite yes at least then you know where you stand instead of the incredibly annoying maybe thats used so much

I guess if he wasn't interested he wouldn't have text back at all maybe... And they say women are bad

[bikinikill]

I texted Mr Loverboy from last week and asked him to go for a drink. He said he "wouldn't mind meeting up, BUT...blah, blah,blah, some excuse...". Ugh, self-esteem crashing to the ground. He even said he'd let me know if he changes his mind. I wish he had just said "NO F*** OFF!!!", at least that would have let me know for sure he isn't interested.

Oh well isn't that nice of him!!!

I agree it would be much better if he either said get lost or a definite yes at least then you know where you stand instead of the incredibly annoying maybe thats used so much

I guess if he wasn't interested he wouldn't have text back at all maybe... And they say women are bad

I know its not easy at the time, but if he's like that, then you don't really want to be with him. So its nice to know what hes like know then when you are in a relationship and he does something s***ty.

[Georgia]

I know this has been said a lot DinerLandlord, but it honestly sounds like your better of without him. As bikinikill said, he's shown his true colours already. You deserve someone who at least can be honest enough to say: yes I want to meet up, or no, I don't want to, instead of this: maybe rubbish.

Hopefully you'll find someone else who takes the initiative to text you before you get the chance to text him!

[MTerry]

I know this has been said a lot DinerLandlord, but it honestly sounds like your better of without him. As bikinikill said, he's shown his true colours already. You deserve someone who at least can be honest enough to say: yes I want to meet up, or no, I don't want to, instead of this: maybe rubbish.

Hopefully you'll find someone else who takes the initiative to text you before you get the chance to text him!

Actually, I'd agree with you, but I just got a text from someone I gave my number two and a half months ago... We've bumped into each other, said hi and stuff, but I never got any call or text even though I gave them my number after this person agreed to go for a movie "or something like that" with me, until a few days ago.

Never say never, I guess...

[adellejefferiesxox]

I don’t know if I should be concerned or not, but lately I’ve been feeling really thirsty (it’s not like I’m drinking litres and litres of water a day, although I haven’t tried...all I know is I get thirsty) and sometimes my mouth will become dry...I wake up at night usually between 1 – 3 am to go to the toilet. Last night I woke up several times to urinate. I am fairly underweight and I’ve noticed that I’ve lost a fair bit of weight, in total I’ve lost 8kg. I’m not sure how quickly I lost this weight.(could have lost over a period of years) But I know I use to weigh 8 kg more than I do now. I get tired a lot and my legs will get itchy now and then, sometimes it’s in the same spot. Ages ago when I went to the doctors, I think my doctor mentioned I had a low blood pressure but it wasn’t a major concern as it wasn’t extremely low. Sometimes I don’t feel hungry. I bruise easily (but I think that's due to a my lack of iron intake...I don't have amenia though)/I “think” any wounds I get heal slowly. Am I over- analysing the situation?

I think the best thing you can do is go to your local GP because you could look up so many different illnesses and find the symptoms that match yours and you could be perfectly fine! Or you could be ill and think nothing of it, which makes it worse because you haven't treated it. I know it's easier said than done but try not to worry about it until you know for sure. Sometimes when you're worried something is wrong, you make a bigger deal out of something you don't usually notice - such as your weight. You said it might have been over a period of years, which isn't very concerning but because you're worried, you're wondering if you should be.

I don't know anything in particular about your legs being itchy, being tired or drinking a lot more so I can't really give any advice on that sorry! I just think a trip to the GP will help clear your mind if nothing is wrong, and if something is wrong it's best you know soonest so you can treat it. Good luck and I hope you feel better!

Thanks for giving me some advice.

[DinerLandlord]

I texted Mr Loverboy from last week and asked him to go for a drink. He said he "wouldn't mind meeting up, BUT...blah, blah,blah, some excuse...". Ugh, self-esteem crashing to the ground. He even said he'd let me know if he changes his mind. I wish he had just said "NO F*** OFF!!!", at least that would have let me know for sure he isn't interested.

Oh well isn't that nice of him!!!

I agree it would be much better if he either said get lost or a definite yes at least then you know where you stand instead of the incredibly annoying maybe thats used so much

I guess if he wasn't interested he wouldn't have text back at all maybe... And they say women are bad

I know its not easy at the time, but if he's like that, then you don't really want to be with him. So its nice to know what hes like know then when you are in a relationship and he does something s***ty.

Thanks for the nice comments guys, and everyone who I haven't quoted in this reply as well.

I went out with my friends from college again tonight, to the same place I met Mr Loverboy. I told them about meeting him last week, and with their encouragement decided to text him one last time just to say I was out and if he was around maybe we could meet up. He replied by saying he was really tired after a long day, and maybe we could meet up another time. Then, about an hour later he arrived with some of his friends, looked at me, and then completely blanked me. He knew I was in that exact nightclub. Why didn't he just say he wasn't interested in his reply, or better yet, NOT REPLY AT ALL!!!!! What an a**hole! What was he thinking? More importantly, what was I thinking texting him again? I've erased his number now. Ugh, I'm so angry with myself for giving him the satisfaction of thinking I like him. He had such a smug look on his face when he saw me, as if he was delighted with the fact that he can just totally blank someone.