Support Group

[rising-flame]

the guy sounds like a total jerk, and you are so definatly better off not going out with him.

[MTerry]

What a complete douche. Seriously. And even giving you a smug look? You are definitely better off without him.

[Hannah-K]

i have been having problems at school with people bulling me. i spoke to my so called friends about it and they tried to deny the fact they talk about me behind my back. Also i know that i struggle with some subjects- we had a exam the other day and everybody was upset because they got 80% and i think they shouldn't say this as i only got 60% and they all look tome to have the bad mark. I feel upset as well because all my friends know my uncle is off to Afganhistan in 3 weeks but have made no attempt to make me feel better about it as his baby is only 6 weeks old. they know i get upset about people talking about all the soldiers that have died over there.

[adellejefferiesxox]

QUOTE

I don’t know if I should be concerned or not, but lately I’ve been feeling really thirsty (it’s not like I’m drinking litres and litres of water a day, although I haven’t tried...all I know is I get thirsty) and sometimes my mouth will become dry...I wake up at night usually between 1 – 3 am to go to the toilet. Last night I woke up several times to urinate. I am fairly underweight and I’ve noticed that I’ve lost a fair bit of weight, in total I’ve lost 8kg. I’m not sure how quickly I lost this weight.(could have lost over a period of years) But I know I use to weigh 8 kg more than I do now. I get tired a lot and my legs will get itchy now and then, sometimes it’s in the same spot. Ages ago when I went to the doctors, I think my doctor mentioned I had a low blood pressure but it wasn’t a major concern as it wasn’t extremely low. Sometimes I don’t feel hungry. I bruise easily (but I think that's due to a my lack of iron intake...I don't have amenia though)/I “think” any wounds I get heal slowly. Am I over- analysing the situation?

Argh, I haven't been sleeping well lately, I woke up at 3am again this morning, then after that I like woke up every hour or so. Didn't get much sleep at all. I'm constantly waking up between 1am, 2am, 3am. But recently it's been 3am.

Anyone have any tips for a good night sleep or might know why I might be waking around these times?

[~Lynd~]

I texted Mr Loverboy from last week and asked him to go for a drink. He said he "wouldn't mind meeting up, BUT...blah, blah,blah, some excuse...". Ugh, self-esteem crashing to the ground. He even said he'd let me know if he changes his mind. I wish he had just said "NO F*** OFF!!!", at least that would have let me know for sure he isn't interested.

Oh well isn't that nice of him!!!

I agree it would be much better if he either said get lost or a definite yes at least then you know where you stand instead of the incredibly annoying maybe thats used so much

I guess if he wasn't interested he wouldn't have text back at all maybe... And they say women are bad

I know its not easy at the time, but if he's like that, then you don't really want to be with him. So its nice to know what hes like know then when you are in a relationship and he does something s***ty.

Thanks for the nice comments guys, and everyone who I haven't quoted in this reply as well.

I went out with my friends from college again tonight, to the same place I met Mr Loverboy. I told them about meeting him last week, and with their encouragement decided to text him one last time just to say I was out and if he was around maybe we could meet up. He replied by saying he was really tired after a long day, and maybe we could meet up another time. Then, about an hour later he arrived with some of his friends, looked at me, and then completely blanked me. He knew I was in that exact nightclub. Why didn't he just say he wasn't interested in his reply, or better yet, NOT REPLY AT ALL!!!!! What an a**hole! What was he thinking? More importantly, what was I thinking texting him again? I've erased his number now. Ugh, I'm so angry with myself for giving him the satisfaction of thinking I like him. He had such a smug look on his face when he saw me, as if he was delighted with the fact that he can just totally blank someone.

What a tool.What did he expect,that you'd run over and throw yourself at him!You're better off alone then with someone like that.I find it interesting you'd rather him not reply then text back saying he's not interested.Personally i'd prefer a text that's honest rather then complete ignorance.That's just rude imo.

[DinerLandlord]

I texted Mr Loverboy from last week and asked him to go for a drink. He said he "wouldn't mind meeting up, BUT...blah, blah,blah, some excuse...". Ugh, self-esteem crashing to the ground. He even said he'd let me know if he changes his mind. I wish he had just said "NO F*** OFF!!!", at least that would have let me know for sure he isn't interested.

Oh well isn't that nice of him!!!

I agree it would be much better if he either said get lost or a definite yes at least then you know where you stand instead of the incredibly annoying maybe thats used so much

I guess if he wasn't interested he wouldn't have text back at all maybe... And they say women are bad

I know its not easy at the time, but if he's like that, then you don't really want to be with him. So its nice to know what hes like know then when you are in a relationship and he does something s***ty.

Thanks for the nice comments guys, and everyone who I haven't quoted in this reply as well.

I went out with my friends from college again tonight, to the same place I met Mr Loverboy. I told them about meeting him last week, and with their encouragement decided to text him one last time just to say I was out and if he was around maybe we could meet up. He replied by saying he was really tired after a long day, and maybe we could meet up another time. Then, about an hour later he arrived with some of his friends, looked at me, and then completely blanked me. He knew I was in that exact nightclub. Why didn't he just say he wasn't interested in his reply, or better yet, NOT REPLY AT ALL!!!!! What an a**hole! What was he thinking? More importantly, what was I thinking texting him again? I've erased his number now. Ugh, I'm so angry with myself for giving him the satisfaction of thinking I like him. He had such a smug look on his face when he saw me, as if he was delighted with the fact that he can just totally blank someone.

What a tool.What did he expect,that you'd run over and throw yourself at him!You're better off alone then with someone like that.I find it interesting you'd rather him not reply then text back saying he's not interested.Personally i'd prefer a text that's honest rather then complete ignorance.That's just rude imo.

Yes it is rude not to reply, but at least I would know he isn't interested. It's just the vagueness and indecisiveness that I can't stand. Telling me "maybe", or "another time", that kind of thing. I just want a straight answer, or no answer at all.

[adellejefferiesxox]

What do people think of a girl moving out of home for the first time with her boyfriend of 2 months. She's 18 years old.

[thelonius]

What do people think of a girl moving out of home for the first time with her boyfriend of 2 months. She's 18 years old.

It might be a bit soon but I think it varies on a lot of factors like, how long had she known the guy? They could have been friends for a long time and took a while to get together so 2 months isn't that soon really. Also looking at the girl and where she's at in her life - was she already ready to move out? Maybe they got together and he offered to do it at a good time.

If she's a friend of yours and you're worried about her, I'd say to try talk to her about your concerns (without sounding preachy or disapproving of course). Make sure she's thought of all the things that may go wrong and make sure she's okay financially to deal with it all.

[thelonius]

I texted Mr Loverboy from last week and asked him to go for a drink. He said he "wouldn't mind meeting up, BUT...blah, blah,blah, some excuse...". Ugh, self-esteem crashing to the ground. He even said he'd let me know if he changes his mind. I wish he had just said "NO F*** OFF!!!", at least that would have let me know for sure he isn't interested.

Oh well isn't that nice of him!!!

I agree it would be much better if he either said get lost or a definite yes at least then you know where you stand instead of the incredibly annoying maybe thats used so much

I guess if he wasn't interested he wouldn't have text back at all maybe... And they say women are bad

I know its not easy at the time, but if he's like that, then you don't really want to be with him. So its nice to know what hes like know then when you are in a relationship and he does something s***ty.

Thanks for the nice comments guys, and everyone who I haven't quoted in this reply as well.

I went out with my friends from college again tonight, to the same place I met Mr Loverboy. I told them about meeting him last week, and with their encouragement decided to text him one last time just to say I was out and if he was around maybe we could meet up. He replied by saying he was really tired after a long day, and maybe we could meet up another time. Then, about an hour later he arrived with some of his friends, looked at me, and then completely blanked me. He knew I was in that exact nightclub. Why didn't he just say he wasn't interested in his reply, or better yet, NOT REPLY AT ALL!!!!! What an a**hole! What was he thinking? More importantly, what was I thinking texting him again? I've erased his number now. Ugh, I'm so angry with myself for giving him the satisfaction of thinking I like him. He had such a smug look on his face when he saw me, as if he was delighted with the fact that he can just totally blank someone.

What a tool.What did he expect,that you'd run over and throw yourself at him!You're better off alone then with someone like that.I find it interesting you'd rather him not reply then text back saying he's not interested.Personally i'd prefer a text that's honest rather then complete ignorance.That's just rude imo.

Yes it is rude not to reply, but at least I would know he isn't interested. It's just the vagueness and indecisiveness that I can't stand. Telling me "maybe", or "another time", that kind of thing. I just want a straight answer, or no answer at all.

I agree, that vagueness just gives you false hope really! It's so frustrating when people are too gutless to just say they aren't interested and you end up being led on. Like everyone else has said, he sounds like a tool and you're better off without him!

[adellejefferiesxox]

No she's only known the guy for 2 months.