JackWilkins Posted July 17, 2014 Report Posted July 17, 2014 Ah,thanks Pembie! I so very hope so, oneday and hopefully soon, I will find a Tom of my very own and be happy again - I know I deserve to be and for me that's a massive step forward in itself!
pembie Posted July 17, 2014 Report Posted July 17, 2014 Yeah I'm sure you will be happy again just takes time sometimes Hopefully I have helped you out somehow
JackWilkins Posted July 17, 2014 Report Posted July 17, 2014 Please believe me, you have helped me out hugely. Thank you.
Zetti Posted July 17, 2014 Report Posted July 17, 2014 I was going to mention that it is never as bad as you think, it is automatically ingrained that you assume a negative reaction but really it is not that bad. I am glad that you managed to get through it with no major issues.
JackWilkins Posted July 18, 2014 Report Posted July 18, 2014 Thank you very much Zetti. So far, so good..
JackWilkins Posted July 18, 2014 Report Posted July 18, 2014 I sent a text at lunchtime to him,but,as he's travelling around seeing other friends still, I've not heard back.. Am hoping it's a good thing. I don't want to push my luck with him even more so. I know I'm contradicting the above and being impatient , but I just need to say this and get it out of my head, nearly 7 hours since I sent that text.. like I said, being annoying, impatient and indeed paranoid. * Shut up Jack*
Lila_Q Posted August 1, 2014 Report Posted August 1, 2014 You'll be fine Jack. Similar thing happened to me a few years ago with my best friend's brother. He had girlfriend at the time so I didn't say anything. It is good that you were honest, that is better than feeling nervous/awkward around him. You are brave! I hope everything goes well. X
TelephotoMarigold Posted August 1, 2014 Report Posted August 1, 2014 Really fed up of people letting me down. They say I can rely on them, they say they'll be there for me but honestly they are just so involved in their lives that they can't be bothered to notice that I'm drowning. My mum died. I lost Jake and Piglet, my two cats that I'd had for 14 years. I can't afford to go and see my Dad. So where are you? Because you are my best friend and you're just not there...
Homeandawayfan. Posted August 1, 2014 Report Posted August 1, 2014 Often you get so called friends who say Anytime you want me just call" or "I will always be here for you". They say that then but when you do want them they either do no reply to your messages or calls or say "I can't now, too busy".
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