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[Meh-meh..Millie..]

My Dad said he only stayed with my Mum because of the kids..

[DaSilva]

If she knows your dad is violent and she leaves you with him anyway - maybe she could get into trouble that way?

[Heaven]

I'm feeling really down , and I'm crying my eyes out . Just got a call from my sister who is in Poland for the weekend and nowone was home so I picked up and we started crying !!! In times like this you really know what a younger sister means to you !

I miss her so hard .

[hotchoc]

If she knows your dad is violent and she leaves you with him anyway - maybe she could get into trouble that way?

o no no my dad is not VIOLENT he just gets really really angry at times like that but he's not going to smash or hit people.lol sorry for the confusion.Anyways my mum came back 2 days later and dad and her are completely ignoring and avoiding each other. No one can get them to sit down and talk,even though they're sleeping in the same room mum won't talk though dad will but not about whats going to happen with their relationship,i think it's so stupid they're not being mature. Mum told me she's moving out but hasn't told dad yet but I told him anyway. I told my dad to talk to mum,he said he will but not about their relationship but about what's going to happen with me. I think it's so stupid and imature of them not to,they're both trying to block it out it's so stupid.

[DaSilva]

Sounds like your parents have turned into children again and youre the parent

I hope it all works out for ya.

Keep your head up!

[hotchoc]

hehe that's what I think too.

[Tamxxx]

I know this is silly, but I have this fear and obsession of being sick Ie vomiting, Its like when anyone sits next to me and they say they feel queasy or sick, I get so panicky, even though its not me, I dont know why, its like even when I look at films, or just walk on the street and theres a pile of sick there, I just feel weird, and then I have gross dreams about it, I dont how to stop, this obsession and getting scared all the time

[katya]

I know this is silly, but I have this fear and obsession of being sick Ie vomiting, Its like when anyone sits next to me and they say they feel queasy or sick, I get so panicky, even though its not me, I dont know why, its like even when I look at films, or just walk on the street and theres a pile of sick there, I just feel weird, and then I have gross dreams about it, I dont how to stop, this obsession and getting scared all the time

My cousin is exactly the same. It's affected her for years, and because she never sought help for it, she consequently suffered from terrible anxiety, panic attacks and agoraphobia (where you can't leave the house because you're too scared). Eventually she had to get therapy but she has it under control now.

I'm not telling you this to scare you, I'm just saying you should try and keep it in perspective, and if you feel it's getting worse go and see your doctor. Then you'll be able to get it under control before it has too adverse an effect on your life. My cousin always says she wishes she had done something about it sooner, and you have to remember phobias like this are really really common, and doctors hear about them all the time.

I hope I've helped and not terrified you, and also, how do you feel about being sick yourself? Are you ok with that and it's just when it's others that affects you?

[Tamxxx]

I do scared, if I feel sick, but I think thats natural, but then I get scared if the person sitting next to me say that they feel sick, It makes me feel weird and I get tensed and nervous, once my mum was like saying she felt sick, and then I just moved away from her, even though she didnt end up being sick, and once my sister was like she thinks she is going to throw up, but she was kind of saying it as a joke, but I took it so seriously and got nervous.

[katya]

That's what my cousin was like. Al I would really say is that if you feel it's getting out of control you should go see the doctor. The sooner you get help the sooner you'll get over it, and hopefully prevent a whole load of other issues as well.