Tamxxx Posted July 16, 2006 Report Posted July 16, 2006 ^^^ That happens as you get older. What I say to myself is yeah I have great memories of my past, but now im going to make new memories today. That way in 20yrs I will look back on today and think how great these times were I have a phobia of getting old, and when each day passes keep think im getting older then the previous day, and then I have visions in my head that loads of years later, I will be in a different position with maybe my own own family, but then I think I wont have the family that I have now including my parents and sister, and I just dont know how I will cope with life without them, but I have to keep coming in terms that this will happen one day, but I just cant except, it Im like so dependent on my parents to support me and it will be the other way round when they grow old.
Mez83 Posted July 16, 2006 Report Posted July 16, 2006 I really feel for you, i really do sweetie. I also think that the time has come for you to have a chat to your GP. As things will not progress with you, until you sort it out. This may sound harsh to you, and other members reading this. I read a post by you three months ago, you said that you would rather be told the truth, than be told a load of nice stuff from people just doing it for the sake of it. I am going to be honest with you Mer, you are such a nice bright girl, you have everything to live for. Nearlly everyday you feel down about yourself, it is a shame you feel that way. Things will not get better over night, and not on their own. Please go a have a chat with your GP, as i hate to see you like this. You need to get yourself sorted before the family comes along. I had no problem until i had post natal depression, if i was down before my babies came along. I do not think i could of coped at all. Emma I hate to say it, but I think you are wrong to be giving Mar the advice you have here. She has said several times that she doesn't like to go to her GP because she doesn't trust her, and that she seems to dislike Mar. In general, she makes her uncomfortable. The GP isn't right for everyone. Mar has said it's not for her. It almost seems like you are pressuring her to go to a GP because 'it worked for you'. People all over the world deal with depression in their own way. And that's exactly what Mar is doing. And Mar, sorry I talk about you as if you were never going to read it in this post!
Traceve Posted July 16, 2006 Report Posted July 16, 2006 I have a phobia of getting old, and when each day passes keep think im getting older then the previous day, and then I have visions in my head that loads of years later, I will be in a different position with maybe my own own family, but then I think I wont have the family that I have now including my parents and sister, and I just dont know how I will cope with life without them, but I have to keep coming in terms that this will happen one day, but I just cant except, it Im like so dependent on my parents to support me and it will be the other way round when they grow old. Aww Tamxxx. I do sometimes think of whats going to happen to me when im older and my parents arnt around, but then I think. There is no point worrying about something that may be years ahead of me. Take each day as it comes
Penie Posted July 16, 2006 Report Posted July 16, 2006 Tamxxx: I have the exact same thing as you. I already hate being 16 and wish i was younger!!!! Things are moving to fast for me and i don't like it. Finished compulsary school, my siblings not at home, my sister's getting married, going places on my own, doing things on my own and etc. I have more responsibilities that i would rather not have.
Tamxxx Posted July 16, 2006 Report Posted July 16, 2006 Tamxxx: I have the exact same thing as you. I already hate being 16 and wish i was younger!!!! Things are moving to fast for me and i don't like it. Finished compulsary school, my siblings not at home, my sister's getting married, going places on my own, doing things on my own and etc. I have more responsibilities that i would rather not have. I wish I was 10 years old those were the good times when even simple things seemed so fun, being older sucks
katya Posted July 16, 2006 Report Posted July 16, 2006 I'm 24 in a few weeks and wish to God I was 16 again But DaSilva, I like your solution; that's what I'm going to do from now on.
Penie Posted July 16, 2006 Report Posted July 16, 2006 Tamxxx: I have the exact same thing as you. I already hate being 16 and wish i was younger!!!! Things are moving to fast for me and i don't like it. Finished compulsary school, my siblings not at home, my sister's getting married, going places on my own, doing things on my own and etc. I have more responsibilities that i would rather not have. I wish I was 10 years old those were the good times when even simple things seemed so fun, being older sucks That is the age i want to be!!!!
buffygirl Posted July 16, 2006 Report Posted July 16, 2006 ^^^ That happens as you get older. What I say to myself is yeah I have great memories of my past, but now im going to make new memories today. That way in 20yrs I will look back on today and think how great these times were That is just the way. You cannot keep looking back...we all get older that's not neserrally a bad thing as long as we grow and learn by the mistakes we make we grow and learn from them and in within this we learn who we are and at somestage what we want from our live's. It's no good looking back wishing i was a teen again cause you have to realise that age is a crap age to be basiccaly. learning all nmew things.. does'nt mean you'll grow old and wrikkle fast only you will if you let it. This is morbid but think on this. There are youngsters who may just not get the chance to live a life as you can to the full .. so live it stop worrying about what may be that'll age you in no time!!
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