Support Group

[Frankie]

I think that a crush..it happens to all of us...we have fantasies about an ideal we see on the TV or at the movies..etc...its part of growing up..some grown ups..cough..see my avatar..cough...continue to have crushes

[Traceve]

I think that a crush..it happens to all of us...we have fantasies about an ideal we see on the TV or at the movies..etc...its part of growing up..some grown ups..cough..see my avatar..cough...continue to have crushes

Thanks for that that put a smile on my face, This line..

some grown ups..cough..see my avatar..cough...continue to have crushes

What if I just put it down to that, when its more then I crush..

I Have to meet this person! Im in

and Love hurts

[buffygirl]

I think that a crush..it happens to all of us...we have fantasies about an ideal we see on the TV or at the movies..etc...its part of growing up..some grown ups..cough..see my avatar..cough...continue to have crushes

I now believie a crush can happen at any age.. It's crush as Frankie said.. we see a actor or actress, percieve them as our perfect love of our time.

They come across as and acting as her own perfect ideal, even so it's there that feeling, when there gone you miss em so much,..see...i have a major crush..avi tells halve.

[Traceve]

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[Frankie]

I think that a crush..it happens to all of us...we have fantasies about an ideal we see on the TV or at the movies..etc...its part of growing up..some grown ups..cough..see my avatar..cough...continue to have crushes

Thanks for that that put a smile on my face, This line..

some grown ups..cough..see my avatar..cough...continue to have crushes

What if I just put it down to that, when its more then I crush..

I Have to meet this person! Im in

and Love hurts

Yes love can hurt...and so can crushes...I think you have to accept that what you are feeling...however strong, overwhelming, painful, scary etc... it is...is not real...and it that you are in love with who you think this person is...that is what a crush is...as I said we all have them...the trick is to enjoy them and not allow them to take over...and recognise what is real and possible..I know some people who have met the person they thought they loved and were bitterly disappointed that they were nothing like they imagined...and wished they had not done so...the fantasy was so much better than the reality. You are 16 and what you feel is perfectly normal...it will pass and one day you will be able to joke about it....ask your Mum who she was in love with at your age... ... if you allow a crush to become an obsession you will miss out on so much.

I like the guy in my avatar..I think he is hot...but I love my partner in a completly different way..it's real, it's deep, it's committed and it's based in reality not fantasy. One day you will have that with a real person who will be your whole world.

[Traceve]

I dont think asking my mum that would go down to well, she is a strong christian and would kill me if I ever talked about it.

How did you know I am 16?

[Frankie]

I looked at your profile..if you click on someone's name you get their profile.... and you put your birthday down...your birthday is the same month as mine

[Traceve]

I looked at your profile..if you click on someone's name you get their profile.... and you put your birthday down...your birthday is the same month as mine

Ohh Sorry, im getting stupider and stupider, last week I asked someone who they knew my name and she was like, umm..Its in ur sig

[Tamxxx]

I feel like this as well , I am in love with the actress. and its not just normal sexual love I sometimes crie because I cannot meet this person and have dreams about her and feel depressed just because i cant meet her, and I think that this will continue for ever because I am completly in love and crazy about her, and its scary because she is a girl and Ive never had any crush on boy celebrities

[buffygirl]

I think that a crush..it happens to all of us...we have fantasies about an ideal we see on the TV or at the movies..etc...its part of growing up..some grown ups..cough..see my avatar..cough...continue to have crushes

Thanks for that that put a smile on my face, This line..

some grown ups..cough..see my avatar..cough...continue to have crushes

What if I just put it down to that, when its more then I crush..

I Have to meet this person! Im in

and Love hurts

I like the guy in my avatar..I think he is hot...but I love my partner in a completly different way..it's real, it's deep, it's committed and it's based in reality not fantasy. One day you will have that with a real person who will be your whole world.

Love does hurt espesially the first one..they say the first cut is the deepest.

What you are feeling is on a fantisey front it is'nt real..you are prehaps fantising for .

this person wishing he was real to give you what you need or want.