Traceve Posted July 27, 2006 Report Posted July 27, 2006 I have? Wow, thanks. It feels good knowing I have helped someone! Mod-note: Merged with support group-thread, as there's already a thread for this sort of thing.
Kimmy Posted July 29, 2006 Report Posted July 29, 2006 HELLPP Lol OK well two of my best friends have just started going out and I feel like I can't hang out with them anymore. I can't hang out with Matt unless Robyn's there and if she is there I don't want to hang out with both of them cos they are all over each other. I just feel as though I am losing Robyn and she is probably my closest friend. I hardly ever see her these days and if I do she's always with Matt. I know it sounds really selfish and it's not as though I don't want them to go out but I just wanna spend some time alone with Robyn! What can I say to them to let them know how i'm feeling with out sounding jealous or selfish?
MarMar Posted July 29, 2006 Report Posted July 29, 2006 Let them know that them being all over each other makes you uncomfortable when you're there, and that you wish you'll still have her there as your best friend... maybe a little alone-time every now and then?
Kimmy Posted July 29, 2006 Report Posted July 29, 2006 Yeh I just have to wait for the right time to say it thoguh...I'm not very good at telling people things I mean unless I say it in a joking way
griseknoen Posted August 1, 2006 Report Posted August 1, 2006 My younger brother has just lost a friend in a moped accident today. He`s out with his friends now and I think he should be aloud to stay there for a while, but my father says he should come home. My parents isn`t at home, so I`m in charge. What should I do? And if he comes home, what shall I say?
Emmadolly Posted August 1, 2006 Report Posted August 1, 2006 That is sad to hear. Him spending time with his buddies will help him, as he can chat openly about his feelings with them, as they are going through the same thing. It may be harder for him to express himself to your parents, he also has you to talk to. How old is your brother?.
Skykat Posted August 2, 2006 Report Posted August 2, 2006 My younger brother has just lost a friend in a moped accident today. He`s out with his friends now and I think he should be aloud to stay there for a while, but my father says he should come home. My parents isn`t at home, so I`m in charge. What should I do? And if he comes home, what shall I say? I can understand why your parents want him home but everyone deals with grief in their in way and I agree with Emmadolly that his friends might just be the best support he can have at the moment. If your brother does come home you should just try and be as normal as possible with him but let him know that if he needs to talk you're there and then let him have his own space to deal with things. That way if wants to talk he'll know he can come to you but if he wants his space you'll be letting him have that too.
griseknoen Posted August 2, 2006 Report Posted August 2, 2006 My brother is 16 years old. I just letted him stay out with his friends last night. Today him and his friends are going to the place where the accident happened and will place flowers there, and just be together. It seems that he really needs that right now. Thanks for the replys
Traceve Posted August 3, 2006 Report Posted August 3, 2006 I just cant keep thinking about this girl Aww Gemma. I know what you mean. I was thinking about this 1 gril for months, till I seen anonther girl. now I rarly think of her anymore, Whenever I try too all I see is the new girl. But they arnt real..sorta..They are just a fantasy. If we met them they would be differnt to what we thought.
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