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[pam]

I know that you might really want to meet them but the big question still remains about trust. Also if you did move there you have to think about the fact of living arrangements, paying for food and your own personal welfare. No matter how important you may feel that this person is to you, you should put yourself first right now, and maybe that means staying at home where there is a roof over your head, and food.

In 2 years when you are 18 if you still talk to this person and you still feel for them then maybe then you could do something about it.

[Traceve]

I meant what do you mean lol...

I havent even thought about food, and stuff like that. I just want to be with this person..nothing else matters to me at the moment..Although I suppose it should.

[~Lynd~]

I know how that feels....major case of unrequited love for me i'm afraid,oh well dosn't know what he's missing out on!

[Traceve]

Oh you dont want to know him, trust me.

[~Lynd~]

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[pam]

I know what it feels like to want to run away. As I have nearly done it loads of times. However I love to think things through and I thought what would I do when I get to a place. I realized my home wasnt bad after all.

You are only 16 so you should always put your welfare first. Two years might seem like a long time away but sometimes waiting is the best thing to do. You might even go and when you get there decide you want to go home and you might not be able to. I really advise you to talk to someone maybe at school as you don't seem to be able to approach your Mum, in the end I think it will help you. If you talk to someone you also might be able to figure out what you really want. You might have a crush on this person but you should not take such drastic decisions.

[Traceve]

He um cheated on me so I dumped him, also becasue I dont love him anymore, I had feelings for someone else..

I did run away once, a really close friend of mine died so I got a friend from anonther town to pick me up and take me back to her house......I went home the next day

I dont go to school so nothing there and im not talking to my mum, So I came here..I havent even told the person how I feel about them yet..but im pretty sure they know.

[pam]

I'm really sad to hear he cheated on you.

Maybe you should try to tell the person how you feel and you can both talk about it becuase you seem very confused. Does your town have a place where you could go and talk to somebody? As I really feel that would be the best thing for you to do at this stage. Running away is not always the best answer. I you only have 2 years or less until you are 18, then you can go and meet this person if you are still in contact. I feel that is going to be the best thing for you.

[Traceve]

Yes, I am very confused. I will talk to them next time they come online and see what they say, but we have so much in common and even are both umm that way inclined.

I dont think this town has somewhere to go..I wont skip town and go to NZ..I dont even know how to get a passport So I cant..but I do know this person wants to move to Australia as they hate it in NZ

[pam]

I'm just curious if this person is the same age at you or below 18? I am curious to know because if that is the case then you will both have to wait for 2 years which seems to be the best thing to do if you both really want to meet each other.

Also I'm sure if you went to your local GP office in your town they could point you in the right direction so you could talk to someone. I really wish I could help you more but I'm not sure how.