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[Traceve]

I do have her number but, I dont want to break that trust we have by telling her parents..

Well she hasnt mentioned anything for a while, so maybe she was just having a down day..

[Emmadolly]

The down day you mentioned lasted a lot longer than that. I see that you are 16 and your friend is 14. I can understand how you feel confused about your feelings, but you are very young to have to carry this worry on your young shoulders. Even though she lives in a different country as you have said, the only contact you both have is through the internet.

For all you know she is saying the truth , or it could be lies from her. But it is NOT for you to carry the burden.

I can see why you are worried for her, but as you don't really know her situation at home, or know the family. How can you actually help her. As her family may be really concerned about her, but she has not said to you.

As a friend all you can do , is be there for her, when she needs you

[Traceve]

Thanks for that.

I guess your right the only thing I really can do is be there for her and your right im very confused at my feelings for her, I dont know if they are real or not. Im pretty sure they are real.

Do you think you can love someone if you havent met them before?

[100%me]

Thanks for that.

I guess your right the only thing I really can do is be there for her and your right im very confused at my feelings for her, I dont know if they are real or not. Im pretty sure they are real.

Do you think you can love someone if you havent met them before?

Hmm now thats a good question. I dont believe that you can love someone without meeting them IMO I think that you can have feelings for someone if youve spoken to them for a while, but how do we believe that the feelings are real because for all we know the person your speaking to is someone else and is not who they say they are. To be honest I dont think you can fall in love online as you need to be with someone for a long time to get to know everything about them.

[Traceve]

I told my "best friend" and she lost it, giving me the lecture about Adam and Eve and tehn she told me never to talk to me again and called me a phediphile.or however you spell it because the girl i like is 14

[Frankie]

I told my "best friend" and she lost it, giving me the lecture about Adam and Eve and tehn she told me never to talk to me again and called me a phediphile.or however you spell it because the girl i like is 14

Poeple often knock what they do not understand...but you do need to accept that these feelings you have may be based on something which is not real....I would explain to your friend that you dont know why you feel like this and that you are confused by it and need her support and understanding...if she can't give it...she isn't really a friend.....I hope you can find someone you can talk to face to face about this as i think that would help you to work out what is real and what isn't.

[Traceve]

I have decided to give her the flick complelty as she is now saying if I dont tell my parents about Rachel, they will tell my parents, that isnt fair.

I will tell my parents when im ready and not before.

I know someone who is now engaged weith someone they met online, I just hope mine works out..

Thanks for the feedback and support everyone

[Tamxxx]

Help im out of control, yesterday I brought 12 packets of crips, which were low quality lol but i only brought it because there were loads of them, for a low price, and so i hided them so my mum wouldnt see shes worried about me being overweight, and so i ate 3 packets in one day, I still got tempted, and so I sad NO to myself and STOP before I lose control, so a few minutes later,I came to teh living room my sister went to the other room (shes overweight as well, my whole family are a little bit overweight, but Im the most) so she locked the door found the crips packets and ate 2 of them, i laterf found out an was furious with her like so angry, I said pay me back for what you ate and I was just losing control, so today I ate 3 packets again, only 2 left, so its like 12 packets of crips finished in 2 days and now i feel guilty, ugly an fat im just getting so greedy thinking about food all the time, Im so lazy I dont do my bed, sleep in the daytime, when I havent got anything to do, have seconds for dinner my mum trys to stop me, eat, sleep, my usual routine, I dont know how to just stop, if I do exersise I feel sick , get headaches, and pains, so theres no way out

And im going to a wedding tomorrow but this is crzy instead of finding excitement about meeting friends im getting excited about the food, what special food there will be Its so bad i get dreams of foods I craze for, infact im thinking about eating now, my mouth just salivates at the idea of food

[-Annie-]

^You poor thing. If you feel like you need professinal help, there are websites online that can give advice when you feel like eating heaps. Perhaps just try do a little exercise. Like, do a walk around the block every 2 days. And with the eating thing, try and think of something else when you think of food - for example, what's on telly etc. Also, I try to give myself just one treat a day, like a choccy bar, you could try doing that too.

I'm really no pro at giving advice, but I hope you get what I mean.

[Tamxxx]

^You poor thing. If you feel like you need professinal help, there are websites online that can give advice when you feel like eating heaps. Perhaps just try do a little exercise. Like, do a walk around the block every 2 days. And with the eating thing, try and think of something else when you think of food - for example, what's on telly etc. Also, I try to give myself just one treat a day, like a choccy bar, you could try doing that too.

I'm really no pro at giving advice, but I hope you get what I mean.

Thanks for the advice it means alot, but I have been a bit bad today ate some crips, but im going to stop and I have started going cycling so I guess that I might help im 5ft6 and weigh 80kg (13 stones ), so I need to lose 4 stones, and then I will be normal