deadea Posted September 20, 2006 Report Posted September 20, 2006 I need advice. I'm always staying in and i really want to get out and join one of the gangs around the place but i don't know how to get into a gang. Any help would be appreciated In my experience (which is pretty considerable!) the best way to get into a 'gang' (i'm both hoping and assuming that you dont mean the 'westies' etc ! (Dublin actual gang to those of you not in Ireland)- is to start making one or two friends maybe in your neighbourhood or school? Your 16 right? well, no offence- but that time pretty much sucks for most people- especially if your shy. Do you have any class mates as friends? I know this sounds a bit vague, but seriously I would suggest making friends with one or two friends first, of course in order to do this you have to approach them- which can be seriously scary especially as i said if you are shy. Try to be confident (even if your not- fake it,) and try not to feel bad if they are mean back to you. Just keep trying. Hopefully you will meet a friend who maybe is in a similar position as you. Gangs tend to grow organically from there if you know what I mean. I do hope this helps- (btw, where are you in Ireland? could you possibly join a local group etc? drama... sports or something?)
Marieh Posted September 20, 2006 Report Posted September 20, 2006 Oh darn... It's Wednesday and I'm still not improving... When I get home from school, we are going to see if I need to go to Hospital. It's more than likely that I will... I hope you'll get better soon Cal.. And if you go to hospital, then it will maybe be better chances to find out what it is instead of sending you home with medication all the time
Cal Posted September 20, 2006 Report Posted September 20, 2006 We rang the doctors today to see what hospital I need to go into... The doc said that my "condition" is past hospital treatment... eh .... scary! I'm going back on Friday morning, and we'll see what we have to do.
Jess Posted September 20, 2006 Report Posted September 20, 2006 So you're not going into hospital yet? If your '"condition" is past hospital treatment', then why are they leaving you to potentially get worse? Anyway, I really hope you get better really soon, hun.
Cal Posted September 20, 2006 Report Posted September 20, 2006 To be honest Jess, I have no idea what's going on.
-Tess- Posted September 22, 2006 Report Posted September 22, 2006 I need help. What do you do when you don't want to be around anymore, but you can't talk to anyone about it? And that no one has any idea what's going on?
Marieh Posted September 22, 2006 Report Posted September 22, 2006 What do you mean? If you don't want to be with a person, why are you.?
-Tess- Posted September 22, 2006 Report Posted September 22, 2006 Not with a person, alive in general.
Cal Posted September 22, 2006 Report Posted September 22, 2006 Hi Guys, I'm in hospital! I was sent in this morning. and I'm staying until wednesday, which is quite annoying. I had a Cat Scan this morning, very scary. They have found out that my small bowel has an imflamation on it. So it's most likely Chrones Diesese. I'm having a tube put up my nose on Monday, which then goes down into my stomach and Bowl area. We can then determine if it is Chrones. TThey have given me loads of fatty drinks to put on the weight i've lost. The nurse said that I will have to go on Steroids and other medication once I leave. The hospital is very nice, because it is private. Just had dinner, twas yummy! And I'm back on dairy, so that's a relief. Bye for now, I'll try and pop in now and then. )
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