claire-b Posted December 12, 2008 Report Posted December 12, 2008 Id rather keep him out, he makes way too much mess for my liking. He likes to cook which is a good thing but he has this annoying habit of using as many utensils, pans, plates, dishes as he can find which is totally unnecessary & drives me bonkers. They say everyone has some kind of OCD & mine is with the kitchen, everything has its place & when hubby puts things away its never how I like it & have to go round changing it. Does anyone else have OCD about something so stupid?
Miranda Posted December 12, 2008 Report Posted December 12, 2008 Oh great, another door slams in my face! I am stuck in a boring job I have grown to really dislike, which I could do blindfold with both hands tied behind my back, now I can't do an Open University course because I can't get funding [which I thought I could, which makes it more annoying] and we can't afford to pay for it, even just a short course. So I'm just trundling along, bored out of my skull, trapped in a routine life with absolutely no intellectual stimulation whatsoever, zzzzzzzzzzzz. Is this all there is in life, endless routine tasks, whiling away the time til I die? God, what a load of ********. The only thing I enjoy is writing stories, wow, gee, that's really going to change my life :angry: :angry: Anyway, as per bloody usual I will pick myself up, paste on a fake smile and carry on as usual. But something has got to give, I dread to think what........... Good night all, I will be back to finish off Proud and Prejudiced, but who knows when I'll come back after that?
Mrs Bishop Posted December 13, 2008 Report Posted December 13, 2008 Please Miranda cheer up surley life cant be as bad as that you have a young baby and a husband that you can care for I havent got a husband to share christman with I dont look forward to this time of year ar all its very lonly expecially when you see other people enjoying them selves.
grumble bum Posted December 14, 2008 Report Posted December 14, 2008 Hey can i join the mature age thread? I qualify. Sorry to hear about your husband Janice. Do you have any kids. I have a 12 year old daughter and school holidays have started. Trying to find things to do that isn't dear is really hard. Well Xmas is nearly hear. Finally finished my Xmas shopping. Do not take kids Xmas shopping.
Lesley Bee Posted December 14, 2008 Report Posted December 14, 2008 Morning everyone I just came in for a good old moan i have the headache to end all headaches, in fact i think its a migraine whatever it is its making me feel sick and im actually squinting my eyes trying to type this.
Mrs Bishop Posted December 14, 2008 Report Posted December 14, 2008 You should be lying down in a darkey ened room isnt that what they say for a migraine I wouldnt know I,m pretty lucky I only get headackes when I have a cold and they are bad enough
Lesley Bee Posted December 15, 2008 Report Posted December 15, 2008 Hello peeps Well here goes another day in work still can't complain, im off tomorrow and wednesday Hows everyone today?
grumble bum Posted December 15, 2008 Report Posted December 15, 2008 I'm okay going to bed soon. It is 10:40pm here. Everyone else is asleep.
Miranda Posted December 15, 2008 Report Posted December 15, 2008 Yes Janice I see your point. But you have exactly summed it up. I spend my life caring: for my daughter, my husband, my mum, my disabled students, but who cares for me? I don't want to do a caring job anymore, as I've done it for 10 years, but I can't get another, however hard I try. I used to love it, but its worn me out. I am just giving, giving, giving, giving, but who gives back? I don't want to have lots of health problems, but I can't solve them miraculously, so that is another drain on my resources. How come my husband has a stimulating career, keeps doing qualifications and getting endless support from me at home, but I am just supporting, giving, caring all the time? There is nothing left in my 'giving tank'. I'm used up and spent, I cannot give anymore to anyone, but I have to keep going, endlessly giving and giving. When will it be my turn to say: stop! I am going to study for a career, do something for myself for once? Anyway, I expect this will all start an argument, but if so, its so.
Mrs Bishop Posted December 15, 2008 Report Posted December 15, 2008 Miranda I wont start a argument with you but just think you have your health you have to be fit to do the job your doing and your lucky to have a job look at all the thousands that have being laid off latly partly through this goverment what sort of Xmas will they have, I know it seems a deserning life when you seem to be giving all the time but your cday will come just wait and at the mopment yoyr baby needs you.
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