The 'have a moan' thread

[MarMar]

We've got the place we want to have the party, but apparently they can't give us two menus. Sucks.

[~Rosey~]

Moan: Sick A really bad cold. And I'm really run down right now. I slept for 14 hours straight last night. Didnt do much help. Damn winter

[Skykat]

I want to rant and this seems as good a place as any.

Two years ago I really liked this guy but he was in a relationship. He said he really liked me too but I wasn't going to have anything to do with it while he was with her so I deliberatly lost contact with him. I saw him again a few months ago, randomly and he got back in touch with me recently. Apparently he's now split from his girlfriend and wants to get with me.

I've had his girlfriend on the phone screaming at me that he's only dumped her because he saw me again and I feel well guilty but how is that my fault? Also I really don't have the same feelings for him. I still fancy him but its nothing like what it was and I know he wants a serious relationship which I don't. I just feel really guilty cause he's dumped his girlfriend for me and I don't even want him and she really loves him.

Why couldn't he have had the guts to dump her two years ago when I actually liked him? And why do I have to get the blame for them splitting up, it wasn't even like I made much of an effort with him, I bumped into him randomly, he bought me a drink and we had a brief chat. I didn't even see anything in it and now suddenly I'm some home wrecker according to her. Plus he's properly laying on the guilt trip that he's split with her for me but I really don't see how that's my fault or my problem.

Is that really callous of me?

[swfc]

Kat, it's not your fault. Don't feel bad about it. They both need someone to blame so they're blaming you. You're not a home wrecker or whatever else they're saying that you are.

Moan- I hate having huge gaps until my next exam. It only makes me procrastinate..

[rennyren]

Kat, don't feel guilty. It's not your fault. It's not like you asked him to break up with her for you, or led him on. Maybe justhave a talk with him about how you're feelings have changed, and if he'd had the...uuuuuh...manhood to break up with her when he should have, then yeah, there'd have been a chance. Or...I don't know, if you still fancy him, maybe you could give it a chance? Just lay down some ground rules about how you're not looking for a serious relationship at the moment or something. I don't know. Just do what you think's right, and sod the rest of them.

My moan: - I got about 3 hours sleep last night - the plumber woke me up by bashing on the door half an hour before he was MEANT to get here...this is over a month before we first tried to organise him...and then he couldn't even fix the MAIN problem we asked him to, being that our shower is dripping and driving us all insane and flooding our bathmat ALL the TIME. Which basically means I woke up for NOTHING. Oh, and he's not even a qualified plumber. He's just a guy with a toolkit our agent sent around.

I hate being a student.

[>>Emma<<]

ARGH!

I'm so annoyed, and I couldn't find anywhere else to put this, so here is my rant for the day.

Me and this girl have fallen out and we haven't been speaking for a while, last Sunday I had a party and invited my little 'friendship group'. She's one of them and originally I didn't invite her, coz I didn't want there to be a bad atmosphere. But in the end I thought that it was too mean and I invited her. Of course she didn't show up.

It took so much guts to actually make the first move and she just threw it back in my face.

Then she went and told her sister who is 2 years younger than her about our argument and today her sister decided that she should start having a go at me on bebo. She has no right, because it doesn't even concern her. She may be sticking out for her sister, but it really does have nothing to do with her. She wasn't present when it happened and she's bound to only know the story from her sister's point of view. Of course she's going to be biased.

So I messaged her back telling her that she doesn't know the full story and she just said this load of rubbish. Anyway I'm soo annoyed, but now I've blocked her so she do anything on my profile.

ARGH!

I'm just so annoyed. She has no right, and after I invited her sister to the party I thought that things might start to get a little better. Then she didn't show up, but still I had a little faith. Now this has happened.

[vale4eva]

She didnt even show up!!!!

B*tch

Shes not worth it Emma, she obviously only wants to cause tension and she is probably an attention seeker. Shes also probably jealous that your so close to your other friends.

But you made the effort, and she threw it back in your face, so I wouldnt even bother with her from now on, youve got your other close friends, stick with them, cause she doesnt sound worth it in my opinion.

[-Andrew-]

I second that. She sounds like trouble

[Sarah_Lewis]

Here's a shock =o I got my vodafone bill on Tuesday, guess how much it was? $5,000 dollars they say i was on the net, which i use my phone as a modem cuz our net is stuffed, so i use my phone as a modem and they dont tell you you have to pay $2.00 a minute, and its FREE whn your using a pre pay sim card!!!

God knows how im going to pay them lol we wrote them a letter to see if they'll let us off which i hope they do because I refuse to pay it to them!!

[Elise]

If that fails, they can always put you on a payment plan. Sucks though.

My moan, I HATE end of financial year! It's driving me bats--t crazy!!!! I'm seriously busy and haven't taken a lunch break all week! Thank god it's Friday tomorrow!

Also, a colleague is going away for a month, so that means I have to do the full booking systems, and they are going to be a pain, it will be so busy, we'll end up having problems with people trashing our halls and it will be stress, stress, stress for a month!

January cannot come fast enough.