Emma_B Posted March 13, 2006 Report Posted March 13, 2006 Hmmm go Frankie and her policeman! Don't really see that as a problem though, my parents would have to actively press charges and I think (know) my brother's sexual innocence is long gone, before mine was even. Don't ask.
.Cat. Posted March 23, 2006 Report Posted March 23, 2006 Just found out im on babysitting duty when we go out on Friday night to some reastraunt (sp?) with the family. I really have got better things to do then watch a 2, 4 and 5 year old play in some kids room
Liz Posted March 23, 2006 Report Posted March 23, 2006 Hmmm go Frankie and her policeman! Don't really see that as a problem though, my parents would have to actively press charges and I think (know) my brother's sexual innocence is long gone, before mine was even. Don't ask. It's a very difficult situation for you to be put in. I'd have very little respect left for a friend who put me in such an uncomfortable situation.
Emma_B Posted March 23, 2006 Report Posted March 23, 2006 I know. I don't even know what to say to her anymore. It's sad really, I mean we weren't bests or anything but we got on really well, we went out a lot with the same group and had fun. She used to date my friend. Now I feel different about her, I don't really want to be around her.
Dan F Posted March 23, 2006 Report Posted March 23, 2006 Gah, a moan thread - perfect! I need a good long moan! Apologies for the length of this post! We're in our second year of Uni and there's 4 of us living in this house in Lincoln. Three of us (which includes me and my best mate who I shall call 'J', and another close friend of ours who I'll call 'B') went to college together, went to Oz together and came up to Uni together. The other guy we met last year at Uni. When it came to our second year we decided that we would stick with this house right until we graduate at the end of our third year, it would save the stress and hassle of having to move around and would ensure we were comfortable in our final year. In the New Year, B all of a sudden announced that he'd found a cosy little 2 bedroomed house on the other side of town that he was going to move into with his girlfriend for the final year. He'd mentioned that they were thinking about it - but it wasn't until we asked him weeks later that he turned around and said 'Oh yeah, I'm definately moving out.' Me and J were pretty disappointed by this, the fact that he was ditching us and leaving us in a predicament. His girlfriend practically lives around here anyway so why they have to move I don't know. It's been the typical guy gets a girlfriend, drifts away from his best mates etc. situation. Our other housemate said he was definately staying - so we started the search for another housemate, which turned out to be pointless as all the people who were still looking were moving in two's. Then 2 weeks ago our other housemate changes his mind and announces he's moving in with another one of his mates. This got me and J really stressed out, and frankly rather p****d off! He reckons it would be easier to find 2 people to move in - which it may have been had he announced this in January. By now everyone we know is sorted for next year! We had a chat with the landlord and she has given us until 1st April to find 2 people, if we haven't found any by then she's going to advertise the room herself and we'll have 2 random strangers moving in with us. We've considered other options, such as moving into a 2 bedroomed house ourselves, but there aren't any at a decent price on this side of Lincoln (where we want to stay for easy access). A friend suggested that we could always move into a 3 bedroomed house with his girlfriend - though she wants to live right on the other side of town. She was moving in with 2 other girls but they are delaying signing things and causing a problem. We thought about it and said we'd look at the house. The house wasn't too bad, but we hated the area. It's really rough, tiny one way streets which seem really claustrophobic, and with it being on the other side of Lincoln it would be really awkward driving to, through the centre of town. Additionally there's also been 3 muggings there within the last fortnight which really makes it appealing. After many discussions with J, we decided to stick where we are. However now our mate has got really arsey about it saying that we're just messing his girlfriend around and that she probably won't be able to move into the house now! We want to feel comfortable in our final year, and we wouldn't be comfortable living there. We never said we were going to move in, just that we'd take a look and see what we think! If she is in such a predicament she could always move here - but she doesn't want to leave that area. So he can hardly have a go at us at not wanting to leave this area! We're not moving just for the sake of pleasing his girlfriend! Along with our heavy workload from Uni it is getting extremely stressful for both me and J. He's not been feeling well for a couple of months now and is quite depressed about everything that's going on. A couple of weeks ago we were up until 5am talking, he was in tears whilst explaining how low he is feeling. It's all affecting him both mentally and physically and he's had to go to the doctors about it. As it stand we've decided to stay in this house, and see who comes along for viewings when it's advertised - it's not the ideal situation but it's the best we can come up with!
Di Posted March 23, 2006 Report Posted March 23, 2006 Wow!!!! not a good situation you and J to be in hun. I don't blame you for not moving. I hope you and J feel less stressed and J feels less depressed soon hun
Dan F Posted March 23, 2006 Report Posted March 23, 2006 Ta Di - hopefully we'll get there in the end! It doesn't seem that bad when written down - but Di knows just how stressful things have been due to my rantings on MSN bless her!
Frankie Posted March 23, 2006 Report Posted March 23, 2006 I hope it turns out OK for you Dan. It could turn out to be a blessing in disguise. You could end up with two terrific life long new mates who are much more considerate than the ones who are messing you about at the moment. Tell J there are oot of metaphorical hugs coming his way fromn bttb. I hope he is feeling better soon.
Liz Posted March 23, 2006 Report Posted March 23, 2006 My moan of the day? I'm over-worked and sleep deprived. Roll on June 23rd! (Last exam date).
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