HighwayUnicorn Posted July 29, 2011 Report Posted July 29, 2011 Fed up with literally everything, PMS, tired & just generally emotional & very sensitive all the time. I just want to hibernate or something, crawl into a hole & never come out. Carina, you always seem so depressed. What makes you feel this way. Maybe you should see a doctor, it would probably help alot:) here if you want to speak Thank you That means a lot. It always seems to go from one extreme to another. I'm either very happy or very upset. & it can be caused by literally anything. Feeling quite hurt that someone obviously doesn't trust me enough to tell me some things. Yet she starts conversations with me about these things & I have no idea what she's talking about & when I ask her, she won't tell me. It makes me wonder why she's even bothering to mention anything to me if she doesn't trust me enough to tell me the full story. Either that or she doesn't want me to know. But it still hurts. I'm more upset than angry.
LauraPhilly!! Posted July 29, 2011 Report Posted July 29, 2011 Thank you That means a lot. It always seems to go from one extreme to another. I'm either very happy or very upset. & it can be caused by literally anything. Feeling quite hurt that someone obviously doesn't trust me enough to tell me some things. Yet she starts conversations with me about these things & I have no idea what she's talking about & when I ask her, she won't tell me. It makes me wonder why she's even bothering to mention anything to me if she doesn't trust me enough to tell me the full story. Either that or she doesn't want me to know. But it still hurts. I'm more upset than angry. Oddly enough Carina, I'm going through pretty much the same thing! There's this girl, right, who I used to be really good friends with but recently we have just drifted but we still very occassionally text. Then the other day we're just texting about norm stuff and then she comes out and says 'FML...I want to kill myself' but she then refuses to talk to me about what's going on! You can't just do that like...did she not think about how horrified I would feel when I read that without any explanation! Its just so annoying!
HighwayUnicorn Posted July 29, 2011 Report Posted July 29, 2011 Thank you That means a lot. It always seems to go from one extreme to another. I'm either very happy or very upset. & it can be caused by literally anything. Feeling quite hurt that someone obviously doesn't trust me enough to tell me some things. Yet she starts conversations with me about these things & I have no idea what she's talking about & when I ask her, she won't tell me. It makes me wonder why she's even bothering to mention anything to me if she doesn't trust me enough to tell me the full story. Either that or she doesn't want me to know. But it still hurts. I'm more upset than angry. Oddly enough Carina, I'm going through pretty much the same thing! There's this girl, right, who I used to be really good friends with but recently we have just drifted but we still very occassionally text. Then the other day we're just texting about norm stuff and then she comes out and says 'FML...I want to kill myself' but she then refuses to talk to me about what's going on! You can't just do that like...did she not think about how horrified I would feel when I read that without any explanation! Its just so annoying! Well I was in a three way conversation with her & someone else. This other person knows more of what's going on than I do. But when I ask her what's going on, she just says stuff like she's being an idiot, etc. I'd still be hurt if she wouldn't mention it full stop but to talk about it in a three way conversation & I have no idea what's going on ... It's not fair on me to be stuck in the middle & I feel used. & when I tell her that because I have no idea what's going on, I won't get involved, she tells me it's probably best. Yeah ... Thanks ... 'Cause I don't have any feelings & something like that won't upset me ... It did make me cry. Next time, maybe she should make it a private conversation if she doesn't want me to know or if she doesn't trust me. & what your friend did to you, that was extremely harsh. You must have felt terrible, not knowing if she would have carried that out or not ... & to not tell you what was going on.
pembie Posted July 31, 2011 Report Posted July 31, 2011 Thank you That means a lot. It always seems to go from one extreme to another. I'm either very happy or very upset. & it can be caused by literally anything. Feeling quite hurt that someone obviously doesn't trust me enough to tell me some things. Yet she starts conversations with me about these things & I have no idea what she's talking about & when I ask her, she won't tell me. It makes me wonder why she's even bothering to mention anything to me if she doesn't trust me enough to tell me the full story. Either that or she doesn't want me to know. But it still hurts. I'm more upset than angry. Oddly enough Carina, I'm going through pretty much the same thing! There's this girl, right, who I used to be really good friends with but recently we have just drifted but we still very occassionally text. Then the other day we're just texting about norm stuff and then she comes out and says 'FML...I want to kill myself' but she then refuses to talk to me about what's going on! You can't just do that like...did she not think about how horrified I would feel when I read that without any explanation! Its just so annoying! Well I was in a three way conversation with her & someone else. This other person knows more of what's going on than I do. But when I ask her what's going on, she just says stuff like she's being an idiot, etc. I'd still be hurt if she wouldn't mention it full stop but to talk about it in a three way conversation & I have no idea what's going on ... It's not fair on me to be stuck in the middle & I feel used. & when I tell her that because I have no idea what's going on, I won't get involved, she tells me it's probably best. Yeah ... Thanks ... 'Cause I don't have any feelings & something like that won't upset me ... It did make me cry. Next time, maybe she should make it a private conversation if she doesn't want me to know or if she doesn't trust me. & what your friend did to you, that was extremely harsh. You must have felt terrible, not knowing if she would have carried that out or not ... & to not tell you what was going on. I have been also been caught up in a three way conversation with my mate or should I say exx mate now I was caught in the middle of him and his girlfriend where she told me more stuff than she told my mate then my mate would hassle me me for what she said so I told him then his girlfriend would have a go at me. it got to the point where they both told me stuff and they told each other what I had said untill my mate called me two faced told me I could go and **** his girlfriend sent me really abusie messages. even tried to punch me So I just ditched him and thought to myself I'm the better person because I never did anything wrong
bradyell Posted July 31, 2011 Report Posted July 31, 2011 I had such a bad week at work last week and am 99% sure that next week is going to be the same and the one after that, the one after that....pretty much up untill September when the schools go back!! Not sure how anybody can be expected to entertain 9 children some of which are 4/5 some 6/7 and some 10 yrs old in a room that isn't big enough to swing a cat with very limited resources!! ARGH!!! not to mention that one of the said children is actually the spawn of satan!! I was spat at and kicked and punched last week Don't get me wrong, i love kids, hence why i'm a nursery nurse, and i think they should be treated fairly and with consideration to their needs but there are times when they are just being naughty and should be treated as such rather than being pandered too!!! I miss my old nursery Sure we had a few little horrors there in our time but we were all on the same page as to how that sort of behaviour should be treated and it came from 3/4 yr olds who are prone to testing their boundaries not from older children who really should know better!!!! Is it FRiday yet??
Zetti Posted July 31, 2011 Report Posted July 31, 2011 Just come back from an 9 hour shift, I cannot feel my feet and I am pretty sure there is a drum banging around in my head
HighwayUnicorn Posted July 31, 2011 Report Posted July 31, 2011 I had such a bad week at work last week and am 99% sure that next week is going to be the same and the one after that, the one after that....pretty much up untill September when the schools go back!! Not sure how anybody can be expected to entertain 9 children some of which are 4/5 some 6/7 and some 10 yrs old in a room that isn't big enough to swing a cat with very limited resources!! ARGH!!! not to mention that one of the said children is actually the spawn of satan!! I was spat at and kicked and punched last week Don't get me wrong, i love kids, hence why i'm a nursery nurse, and i think they should be treated fairly and with consideration to their needs but there are times when they are just being naughty and should be treated as such rather than being pandered too!!! I miss my old nursery Sure we had a few little horrors there in our time but we were all on the same page as to how that sort of behaviour should be treated and it came from 3/4 yr olds who are prone to testing their boundaries not from older children who really should know better!!!! Is it FRiday yet?? I know how you're feeling with the fact that maybe some children who are like that should be punished as opposed to brushing it off, etc. There's always going to be impressionable ages for children (which can be both a good & bad thing). I've walked out of my placements before thinking, 'I hate kids.' Which is obviously very negative but then I go back the next day & everything's a lot better. I totally understand how you expect bad behaviour more so from younger children. At one of my primary school placements, they were all about seven/eight years old & we had one child who was so badly behaved, he was being physically dragged down the corridor at ten to nine in the morning. I actually wanted to cry, the day had only just started! But when I worked with the ones who were ten, they were lovely. So I suppose it depends on the age as well as some children in the class. The placement whereas they were all seven/eight had the really naughty child in the class & they then encouraged his behaviour. I had nobody like that at my other placement. At least you give them back at the end of the day ...
Zetti Posted July 31, 2011 Report Posted July 31, 2011 I swear I feel so ill and tired and worn out right now
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